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Old May 29, 2019, 02:54 AM
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A lack of respect by others is very painful and hurtful.

I don't feel I have ever really had true respect from people IRL (no-one here at PC)(or I had raised them myself)

@Amyjay gave a good explanation in another thread.

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It became easier for me when I was able to see their behaviors for what they were - just poor attempts at their own survival and self-regulation. Their behaviors were not about me, but about their own needs, their own wants, their own survival.
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Old May 29, 2019, 03:41 AM
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I feel we're your coming from. Lack of respect can lead right up to remorse and then wonder why.
Trouble is then it turns into neglect if not sorrow.

We must respect each other
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Old May 29, 2019, 06:41 AM
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i need to pay most attention to how i am behaving...
am i being patient...am i being kind...am i showing respect..
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Old May 29, 2019, 11:42 AM
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I think this is a very good thread. Thank you Thirty shades and all the other kind, thoughtful posters who have contributed to it.

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Old May 29, 2019, 06:54 PM
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Thank you, @Thirty shades.
@Amyjay speaks wisely.

I add my thanks to yours for all those who somehow manage to be kind and respectful of others despite being in agony.
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Old May 29, 2019, 07:24 PM
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Thank you Thirty shades.
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Old May 30, 2019, 03:18 AM
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Thank you for all your replies.

I send kind respectful wishes for a peaceful day.
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Old May 30, 2019, 05:16 PM
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I’m sending kind thoughts to you Thirty shades.
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Old May 30, 2019, 07:50 PM
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Old May 30, 2019, 08:28 PM
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Every time I show respect or offer a kind gesture... I hope I am putting a little something positive out there in the universe and that somehow it can keep going.... keep showing the respect and kindness so we can keep the momentum going. R e s p e c t
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Old May 30, 2019, 08:45 PM
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I agree... every time I show kindness and respect I’m making this world a bit kinder and putting something positive out there.

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Old May 31, 2019, 02:52 AM
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I wonder how many people IRL are even aware of how others are feeling?

It is no wonder they have no respect...

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Old Jun 01, 2019, 10:33 PM
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I wonder how many people IRL are even aware of how others are feeling?

It is no wonder they have no respect...

Thank you to all those who have respect to everyone here
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Old Jun 06, 2019, 02:07 PM
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I wonder how many people IRL are even aware of how others are feeling?

It is no wonder they have no respect...

Thank you to all those who have respect to everyone here
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Old Jun 07, 2019, 02:04 PM
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Much care, kindness and respect to all in this thread
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Old Jun 08, 2019, 07:03 AM
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Old Jun 10, 2019, 10:04 AM
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Old Jun 10, 2019, 11:54 AM
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R e s p e c t


Thank you for posting it Fuzzy

Send much respect to you and all posters
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Old Jun 10, 2019, 11:56 AM
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R e s p e c t
Thank you for posting this Thirty Shades

Much respect to you and all posters
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Old Jun 16, 2019, 03:21 PM
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Much respect to you Thirty shades and to all posters
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Old Jun 16, 2019, 04:39 PM
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Thank you Fuzzybear.

Sending you and all posters respect and empathy
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Old Jun 18, 2019, 10:08 AM
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