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Recently i have been feeling very angry with my best friend because he has been going out with other people and leaving me out. I do lots for him and if anything were to happen to him i would be sad, and he doesn't bother ask me to come out or anything, if I'm not looking happy he will ignore me and when there are others with us he doesn't talk to me. So, whenever he leaves me out or doesn't talk to me i get really angry inside and don't let it out in fear he might stop liking me then when hes out i feel jealous because the others might become better friends with him and he will stop talking to me. Right now it is happening too, he is staying out at a friends and didn't ask me if i was coming or if i wanted to ask if i could come, now i feel angry with him and don't want to be i also feel jealous because he might get 'stolen' away from me. Please help me with this its really bad even sometimes i feel like I'm going to cry.
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blackt12 said: and didn't ask me if i was coming or if i wanted to ask if i could come </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Hey, blackt12, welcome to PsychCentral (PC). There's lots of people here that are helpful and fun to hang with. I think you should just ask to go with him or even state that you're going too, instead of waiting to be asked. You have to tell people what you want, even good friends, they can't be expected to read your mind.
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Welcome to PC!
![]() It's hard when people don't understand how hurt we get when we're excluded. You have my sympathies, since it's happened to me a lot of time too. Have you tried talking to him and telling him how much it hurts you? Or tried arranging time to hang out, and invite him and other people to hang out - on your terms, and not theirs?
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hello, welcome.
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Welcome to PC. I know it is hard to put yourself out there but you may consider talking to him about how you are feeling. Soemtimes people don't realize how they are effecting others as they get so caught up in thier own life. Maybe a kind reminder wouldn't hurt?
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Thanks for all the replies i will have a chat...
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