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I had a bad day yesterday. I found out that I will not be able to work in the shelter for my job like I was promised I could. Honestly I do not think they believe I can handle it because I am so young. When I was hired they changed my job description around and gave me a supervisor and I think it is because of my age. That hurts a lot especially since I really need that shift of an extra 12 hours to be almost full time and so I can quit my other job. Now I do not know what to do.
Working both jobs are killing me. I have no time to myself and I am always running around. However, I cannot afford to quit the job at the mall when I am only working 24 hours a week at the domestic violence center. As it is I do not know if my boyfriend and I can move in together anytime soon...that makes me reallly upset. I just do not think that I will make enough to be able to afford an apartment. (Big sigh) Why am I doing this anyway...what is the point... Jessica
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Sounds like a very disappointment development for you. I hope you will be able to take a breather from running around soon.
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Ozzie's right. After awhile, if they see you're going to be a reliable employee, they might give you what you want. It's hard to wait (this from Ms. Impatience herself), but mostly I have found even on dark days there is light at the end of the tunnel. I hope things get better for you!
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(((((((((((((((Jessica)))))))))))))))
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((((((((shakes)))))))))) You are an exceptional, supportive and wonderful person. I know you will succeed. Hang in there and I'm sure your employers will see how great you truly are.
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Jessica}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Hang in for a while and see how things work out even if you think you might be getting the shaft. Things aren't always the way they seem. You've got my support, whichever way you decide to go.
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Thanks everyone,
Your kind words have helped a great deal. I realize how whiney that post sounded *L* I just have to start thinking of some coping plans that could help me through this. I know I will especially with awesome friends like you guys! Its just hard being so young and in this profession. I can understand where my employers are coming from. It has to be difficult for them to think that a 22 year old can do this job well. It is probably instinct for them to handle me with kid gloves. I definately believe that I am just impatient. I am so eager to get my life started that I want things to happen now. I know that I just have to take a step back and breathe. Jessica
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