Why can't I stop Crying Tonite?

i rarely cry...i don't believe in it...it's soft, stupid and for babies who deserve to

get hurt.

so why do i cry all nite tonite...i got enuff people who care and i been enuff of

a pain tonite.

stupid stupid stupid

hope you feel better, I was told that crying can be a good thing sometimes.

((((((((((((((((((((((KJ)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) Maybe things just got a bit overwhelming. Crying can be a good thing even though it sometimes doesn't feel like it.

BB

sometimes it helps to get things out, even if we dont like it.

love ya! (((((((((((K_J)))))))))))))))

It's ok to cry.

Sometime without knowing it we are stressed out, tired, have giving too much of ourself, hidding hurts wants to come out, a lot of things can brings us to cry. We have tears for a reason and it's alright to use them when we need too.

I hope you feel better soon.

but you cry you show your weak you show your weak you get hurt

Crying doesnt make you weak, it makes you stronger. It isnt pleasant, and many people may think not so nice things about people who cry... but we're emotional beings, like it or not. Getting hurt isnt fun

((((((((((((KJ))))))))))))))) you're a good person, who is just going through a rough time. but you'll get through it.

((((( Kalamity Jane )))))

you don't know me i'm not a good person i had to listen to my son cry on the fone tonite a good person would not have to be hearing her son cry on the fone coz he wants his mommy.

(((((((((((KJ)))))))))))))))

Just because your son misses you doesn't make you a bad mom. It's kinda normal to miss our parents when we're apart. It just means you've got feelings.

i'm sorry you're all trying to help and i'm just being really rude. apologies to you all.

Christina..we live apart coz my kids live with foster folks. thank you for trying to help though.

thanks to all of you, i'll just have to cry it out i spose.

((((((((((((((KJ)))))))))))))))

you're not being rude. you're having a hard time, that's allowed.

I'm sorry your kids live away from you, that must really hurt a lot of the time.

You want to talk, PM me okay? Love ya.

((((((((((((((hugs!!)))))))))))))))

thanks ((Christina)) thanks to ((all)) who responded, sorry can't em all, still crying..grrrrr.

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((KJ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Not being there for your son must be really painful inside. Do you think that you are doing everything you can to help them and you?
No matter how old I got, I still cried for my mommy sometimes.
It really is OK to cry and I don't think you are being grumpy or mean or anything. I think you are just expressing yourself.
It's ok to cry....I know what you mean about feeling weak and like a cry baby, but it really helps to get it out.
I know when I was sobbing with T last week it felt really good afterwards.

You can cry here, it's ok!



BJ

((((((((BJ)))))))) it's all about them as it should be, doing the darnedest i can to guarantee they don't grow up screwed up like their mom.

{{{{KJ}}}}} I lost my kids to foster care a long time ago, one who was only 28 days old, and I was nursing. Needless to say, I had a breakdown. I can honestly tell you, the pain has never gone away, but I am so grateful that I have my current son - he is a beacon in my dismal existance.

At least you can talk to your children. I had all contact cut off due to the stupidity of my ex-husband.

I will keep you in my prayers. Cry all you need to - it is a healthy release and perfectly normal. Stay strong.

Mary Alice

Mary Alice i'm so sorry that happened to you.

Thanks, Kalamity. I know how hard it can be. You need a shoulder, just PM me.



Mary Alice

not sure if im doing this right, anyways i recon its better to let it all out than let ur feeling build up to the point u just want to scream the place dowm, i hope ur ok

awwww ((((mishyb1979)))) thank you

and welcome to pc

how are you?

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((((((((BJ)))))))) it's all about them as it should be, doing the darnedest i can to guarantee they don't grow up screwed up like their mom.




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Well, I think you are very brave. You cry all you want, k?!



BJ

ty...and thanks for not thinking i'm just a whinge tonite...i've done a lot of it.

thanks for being here thru it all ((BJ))

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ty...and thanks for not thinking i'm just a whinge tonite...i've done a lot of it.

thanks for being here thru it all ((BJ))

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(((KJ)))You are very welcome! I am glad to be here for ya! Through all the ups and downs...



BJ