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Apr 18, 2008, 05:39 PM
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Please don't read if not strong...as always i don't wanna take nobody down with me!!! I don't wanna be alive tonite. that's it. somebody threatened to kill me today...sooner the idiot does it and puts me out of this f-in misery the better!!!   
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#2
Apr 18, 2008, 05:46 PM
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((((((((KJ))))))))))
 I'm sorry you are feeling so bad today, hopefully that will get better soon. Please be extra careful, if something happened to you we would all miss you very much. 
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#3
Apr 18, 2008, 06:07 PM
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((((((gimmiece)))))) thank you for your kind words, it's just been a particularly bad day and very draining. but yes, it will pass.
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#4
Apr 18, 2008, 06:15 PM
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I'm sorry that looser threatened your life, he/she dose not see what we see or is very envious of your life
i will put the kettle on and make a good cup of sweet tea I'm sure others will join us for a cuppa and a moan you are to precious to give up  
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#5
Apr 18, 2008, 06:25 PM
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Katheryn you bring such a smile to my face...and you make a lovely cuppa too.
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#6
Apr 18, 2008, 06:52 PM
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KJ.not sure what happened but this too will pass and if you need me , i will be right here w/the rest of the gang........love ya pj56
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#7
Apr 18, 2008, 06:52 PM
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((KJ )))
you be careful what advice you follow..... confrontation may not be the thing for you.... someone else can do the dirtywork.... protect yourself and stay with a friend like we talked about before... people can be so mean to each other... it isnt about you or the type person you are... its about them and the bad habits they have.... stay sweet and cheerful.... dont let the bastard win.... get that can of pepper spray yet? someone before suggested water and cayenne pepper mixed in a squirt bottle... easy to make hon... might be uncomfortable, but ride this out.. it cant last forever.... sometimes, because life isnt perfect, we gotta suffer til things get sorted out in our favor.... practice good care ... talk with us here awhile if it keeps your fears down hon.... |
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#8
Apr 18, 2008, 06:54 PM
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No kind action ever stops with itself. One kind action leads to another. Good example is followed. A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees. The greatest work that kindness does to others is that it makes them kind themselves.
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#9
Apr 18, 2008, 07:07 PM
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thank you janet, love you too.
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#10
Apr 18, 2008, 07:17 PM
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((((((((((((((KJ))))))))))))))
You KNOW you can always count on me if you need an ear! I am going to sit here with everyone and enjoy the company.. That person who threatened you is just a jerk! I think you are sweet, kind, loving, caring and just a really great friend to me and so many others here. Sending you good thoughts, my friend. BJ
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#11
Apr 18, 2008, 07:18 PM
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(( nowheretorun )) i've already told people i won't use violence over this and neither should they....nor should they be confrontational. at one point the cops had enough to charge him but a few (well-meaning if none too bright) friends lost it and physically threatened him so the case had to be dropped. he waited til the time limit on his bail conditions ran out and started again. i've spent all day telling friends to keep cool over this for my sake. i do have pepper spray...the cops also brought me personal alarms, emergency numbers etc... ...and details of self-defence classes i've already told them i don't wanna be violent unless i absolutely have to to protect myself...the man is obviously sick and needs help...i told the police today...if it comes to a choice between jailing him and sectioning him under the mental health act...please section him instead of jail, he needs that help bad. and i know this won't last forever....i just had to get it out on the boards as an alternative to taking it out on myself...don't wanna revisit those bad old days. i will stay strong even though it's hard...and i will keep coming here...and strange as it may sound to you...perhaps this is a challenge to make me stronger, wiser, more compassionate? can that happen? thank you for being here to help, it does make me less scared.
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#12
Apr 18, 2008, 07:23 PM
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(((((( BJ )))))) you're such an amazing person, you know that? i know things aren't easy for you atm but you still be here for people, something i'm sometimes not strong enough to do.  you really need to tell me how you are tonite? have you eaten today? i've eaten twice today...under threat of force-feed from a very sweet but no nonsense friend...lol
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#13
Apr 18, 2008, 07:27 PM
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Awww, thanks KJ!
Actually, I am still hurting, but I am in a good mood today. I did eat...twice! I had a packet of oatmeal for breakfast and one of those little soup cups for lunch!!! I'm glad you ate...even if under threat! LOL I really do care that you are ok. BJ
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#14
Apr 18, 2008, 07:31 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
this is a challenge to make me stronger, wiser, more compassionate? can that happen? </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> that can definitely happen sweetie.... when this is passed you will have learned much and grown stronger despite it... you are really doing a great job being strong... have faith, tho i know it is challenging for sure...
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#15
Apr 18, 2008, 08:10 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
nowheretorun said: </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font> this is a challenge to make me stronger, wiser, more compassionate? can that happen? </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> that can definitely happen sweetie.... when this is passed you will have learned much and grown stronger despite it... you are really doing a great job being strong... have faith, tho i know it is challenging for sure... </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> wow...it may sound strange but it makes it easier knowing that i can learn and grow from it...it's been my goal from a toddler to learn, grow, be more spiritual, compassionate etc... but there's just one thing i recently discovered about that...lol you never get to the finish line... though luckily...even if you don't realize it til a time afterward...most hurdles produce something sweet... thank you for that ((nowheretorun))
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#16
Apr 18, 2008, 08:27 PM
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Don't forget how long it took the good guys to break down your door last time
 Just bolt yourself in and hang on for a bit. Morning usually always comes.
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#17
Apr 18, 2008, 08:33 PM
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LOL...it's sweet of you to remind me my front door is unbreakable!  i must say though...i envy people who obviously haven't known the nasty things in life i have. example...petrol bomb thru the letter box.  now i just keep telling myself...he thankfully ain't bright enough to think of that one. ((Perna)) 
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#18
Apr 18, 2008, 08:42 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
even if you don't realize it til a time afterward...most hurdles produce something sweet... </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> thank you for that! ((KJ )))
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#19
Apr 18, 2008, 08:53 PM
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Oh my gosh!!! Worried about you! Say safe out there!!!!
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#20
Apr 18, 2008, 08:56 PM
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((((Kiya)))) please don't worry, i'm safe just freaked.
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#21
Apr 18, 2008, 08:57 PM
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Oh! I hate that when we think of ways around our own defenses and are left defending ourselves from our own cleverness with our own cleverness!
No, he's not bright enough to think of (or make) a petrol bomb. My husband and I like reading about "dumb" criminals. He was telling me about one who was shot and killed; he pulled a gun on and tried to hold up a guy at a petro station only the guy was an off-duty policeman. . . still in uniform! What floor are you on? </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font> Check out this guy, police are coming to question him about an assault complaint so he tries to escape from police through a window. The problem? He forgets that he’s 23 floors up from the pavement. BRONX, N.Y. (WCBS) - An astonishing attempted escape from the police in the Bronx Wednesday morning left a suspect dangling from the side of a high-rise, 23 stories above the ground. It wasn’t a typical sighting for New Yorkers walking outside or living across from the Soundview apartment tower. “I started to think, ‘What’s wrong? Is he trying to commit suicide or something?’” said Alex Morales, who, along with his wife Patricia witnessed the suspect’s crazy antics. It gets worse. A neighbor whipped out their video camera and caught the whole thing on tape where the local friendly neighborhood TV station was more than happy to put it on the air. Correra was taken under arrest without harm and charged with assault, violating an order of protection, hanging around and encouraging bad puns. </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> From: http://www.dumbcriminals.com/
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#22
Apr 18, 2008, 08:59 PM
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LOL that's funny Perna thank you.
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#23
Apr 18, 2008, 09:47 PM
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((KJ)))))))
" cops also brought me personal alarms, emergency numbers etc..." Post them on your frig. Next to your bed. Keep them with you always. Self protection is your best care. .'those who have dealt with this a long period of time know ............... A stalker is nothing to fool with as you know. confrontation does not fix it. Keep your self safe self awareness. Keeping your e mail safe , your yahoo safe. You safe. Ppl in your situation have learned only to give out few details of themselves. While on the net. And IRL. You are very strong you matter please keep yourself safe know i care muffy |
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#24
Apr 18, 2008, 09:56 PM
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((((muffy)))) thank you. you always give out good, strong advice. i'm managing to keep myself safe with the help of friends both IRL and online...they've set up check-in times for starters and if i don't check-in at that time...they don't take any chances, they just call the police and report something's a-miss. thank you for caring muffy. know i care about you too and hope all is well with you tonite? |
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#25
Apr 18, 2008, 11:48 PM
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I'm so sorry.
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