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Old Apr 29, 2008, 03:36 PM
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It has been a day from h***. I don't mean to sound that way but its been that kind of day.
First of all, I know that my boss is going through a lot with his cancer and all. I know that it makes him weak and I know it makes him cranky. I just don't think that an illness gives someone the right to be hateful. He's made me cry just about everyday since I've worked here and I've only worked here for about a month. He is so mean. I know that the illness has him upset. I can't imagine having cancer and then possibly dying from it. I can't imagine having to basically get your affairs in order or having to say goodbye. I really can't. I do feel for him when it comes to that but he is so mean. He's called me stupid countless times. He's chewed me out because I did something he specifically said to do and then he chages his mind but yet I'm the one who gets chewed out for it. I'm the one learning by trial and error because he is too ill to be here. Yes, he is sick and I get that. But that no excuse to treat me like crap. He is constantly telling me things that contradict each other. One day he tells me to work on school stuff once I get everything done that needs to be done, done and then the next he gets mad because I am working on school stuff even though things are done in the office and there is nothing for me to do. He confuses me and makes me so mad. Then I never know from week to week if and when I"m getting my pay check. For instance, he has to go to a different state to get chemo and the way I take it he'll be gone that whole week. Thats fine, but what about my pay check that week. When will he give it to me?
I'm looking for a job so that way I can quit this one and have a new one to go to. I know that any job I go to is going to have its problems but I need a job where the boss doesn't constantly contradict himself or herself. I need a job where the boss is actually here to train me or at least someone is there to train me. I want a job where I'm not told that I"m stupid because I messed up.
And in case my job just isn't enough to stress me out lets add my family who is about to drive me crazy with their crap.

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Old Apr 29, 2008, 03:53 PM
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I am glad you are looking for another job, your workplace sounds toxic. I wish you the best of luck finding a new and better job. venting may be long
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Old Apr 29, 2008, 09:47 PM
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Good luck on finding a new job. I hope you find another one soon.
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