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May 05, 2008, 11:02 AM
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i guess for me, i learned to dissociate to deal with the emotional pain... it was a useful tool at the time i guess...
ive realized now how i need to re-connect, in real life and here at PC with you all... i'm not very good at it tho... i've missed so many of you alls' posts and it must seem like i dont care... but i do... i hope you all are doing good enuf today, but i lknow some days just arent like that... sending you all hugs.. ((((((everyone)))))))) |
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May 05, 2008, 11:06 AM
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(((((((((((((( NoWhereToRun )))))))))))))))))))))))
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May 05, 2008, 11:12 AM
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Yes, I have trouble with that too; the habit of not connecting.
Hope you're doing well, nowhere {{{nowheretorun}}}
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May 05, 2008, 11:16 AM
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aw, ((((ice))) i should have known i could count on you and see you on this thread... you know how much you have made me want to care again? i can feel the tears building now...
thank you for being you and caring... i read what you write and i feel like we are so much alike in some ways.... i can really feel your compassion and you do such a good job of expressing kindness... i want to be part of a warm caring community again... thanks for all you add 
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May 05, 2008, 11:18 AM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
Perna said: Yes, I have trouble with that too; the habit of not connecting. Hope you're doing well, nowhere {{{nowheretorun}}} </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> thank you for those warm wishes Perna, hey, we are connecting... i like that... : ) some days that is just enough, some days i want to do more, sometimes i am afraid, sometimes i'm weak.... thanks for trying with me.... maybe we can make it, i am hoping for it so much.... |
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May 05, 2008, 01:15 PM
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I understand what you are saying about feeling disconnected! I feel that way alot. Especially with dissociating.
I know that you care, but sometimes we need to work on ourselves and that is OK.... BJ
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May 05, 2008, 01:30 PM
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((((((((((nowheretorun ))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Know how much you matter here at pc emotional pain is so hard you matter may your day get better muffy |
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#8
May 05, 2008, 05:09 PM
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((((nowheretorun))))
I went thru a disoriented phase for a few years during a difficult separation. Since then I found i can detatch quite easily - if I feel it's a survival thing. Sometimes I do it too much, and end up alienating myself. It's good to make connections and keep those close we trust and care about. I have felt your presence on PC since my arrival as your words are powerfully honest, I think. You use them well. I appreciate your posts very much and look forward to whatever it is you have to say. I hope you feel cared about, because you are! peace and love. nightbird
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May 05, 2008, 08:38 PM
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((((((BJ ))))))))))) you are absolutely right about that... sometimes i think i forget about my own weaknesses and think i've made it all the way out of the depressive cycle, but, it is only silently sleeping... at times like those the value of PC for me is priceless...
((((muffy )))))) always there for me..... ((((((nightbird)))))))) its funny i think how often i read a persons posts and i feel like i know them somehow but we've hardly ever spoke.... we are like that nightbird, cause i like your position about a lot of things... you have given kindness to my friends in times of need, and today to me... yes, trust is certainly an issue... i know we cant trust everyone but because of good people like you, people like me can learn to trust again you matter .... thanks for being here..
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May 05, 2008, 10:14 PM
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oh, thank you so very much.
I've been feeling alienated again, and your post has been supportive to me. thanks ... thank you again for seeing me. peace and love your way, nightbird there are pretty wonderful meditative videos on www.relaxation.com if anyone is interested. there is a series of them that are so well done, it's really engaging.
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May 05, 2008, 10:26 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((((NWTR)))))))))))))))))))))))) Sometimes we need time to heal especially if we are disconnecting from our pain. I understand and will be here when you are ready recognizing that you have cared all along.
BB
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May 06, 2008, 10:14 AM
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sorry, I put the wrong web address on the link above
the great videos, (I think anyway) that are there temporarily, I believe can be found on www.relaxationforum.com (okay, go to that one, so sorry for the mix up, as you can see, i need all the relaxing available, lol )
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May 06, 2008, 10:29 AM
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(((nightbird)))) its hard feeling alienated.... its especially hard when you know you want a connection to a better thing and when you look around sometimes there is no ones' hand to take or no shoulder to lean on... its really hard if you are trying to build your foundations and there seems little solid ground.. i know how that feels.... you are very kind and wise to use the relaxation techniques... ive used them myself and in times when there didnt seem to be others, in those relaxing times, i was able to find those parts of myself that needed soothing and the music or words or even silence was able to reach those spots and give cool soothing peacefulness to me.... thank you for sharing those with us, and yes, you do matter very much....
((((BB)))))) thank you for those kind words... it means a lot to me that you believe that about me... yes, i always have cared and within my own funk i was trying to find ways to break out of this isolation.... thank you for being a friend and being here now, best to you always... you matter very much also.. to you all...
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May 08, 2008, 01:43 PM
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((((((((((((((((nowheretorun))))))))))))))))))
You are so well thought of here at pc .... your support means so much, i hope you feel better soon, you deserve to be happy after everything you've been through. Wishing you well, take care, Jin xoxoxoxoxoxo  
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May 08, 2008, 01:48 PM
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((((((((((((((( nowheretorun )))))))))))))))
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May 08, 2008, 05:21 PM
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wishing you well also Jinnyann, there is so much to be learned in life, i think the worst thing i was ever told is how one day i would be all grown up... still waiting for that to happen....
(((((fuzzybear ))))))))) thank you hon... your hugs have kept me going more often than you know....
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May 10, 2008, 07:54 PM
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hmm.....what do I want to be when I grow-up?
lemme see hmmmmmm .... all the possibilities - staggerring! peace and love, nightbird  (thanks for the very kind words, you are a friend in deed and in need) xoxoxo
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