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Oct 06, 2008, 04:10 PM
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he's left me... he's broken up with me
 all I want, all I ever want was for him to listen to me and he won't!ouch! I can't do this anymore!!!!! I REALLY REALLY REALLY can't do this!!!!!!!!!!!! I don't know what to do I don't know what to do I don't know what to do... I can't cope, not now... I can't breath, I hurt... and it'll only get worse
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Oct 06, 2008, 04:16 PM
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((((((((((((((( Molly )))))))))))))))
  
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Oct 06, 2008, 04:18 PM
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((((((((( supermansgirlfriend )))))))))))))
I am sorry that you are hurting. I wish I could say something to make you feel better but I know I can't. Feel free to pm me anytime that you need, I will listen and try to helpful. 
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Oct 06, 2008, 04:20 PM
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((((((((((((((super)))))))))
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Oct 06, 2008, 04:23 PM
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 Don't tell yourself that. I'm so sorry that this hurts so terribly. You can get through it. 
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Oct 06, 2008, 04:28 PM
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I can't get through it
This past couple of weeks has been hard enough... it's pushed me to the edge and now the one person I loved most in the world has told me he doesn't want to be with me anymore! The only friend, my best friend... and I loved him, still love him so much and that all means squat to him... he even said that he loves me, well how can he he when he can hurt me so bad
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Oct 06, 2008, 05:10 PM
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Im so sorry. Im so sorry. Breath a deep breath. It wint do much just ease the pressure in your chest. It feels so bad I know. I can tell you and I know u wont believe me..it will get easier,
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Oct 06, 2008, 05:15 PM
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I don't know what it is that he isn't hearing you say.
I'm glad he says he loves you. Maybe it's more about him than you right now? But to hurt so ... arrggghhh! It won't be this way forever. You're catastrophizing right now, because it's feels so final and desperate. But this isn't the end of the world, it's not even the end of the story I'll bet. Things often can be worked out once the "freedom" is there. He may have needed to find that feeling before he can realize the situation. Hang in there.
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Oct 06, 2008, 05:28 PM
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I know how you feel, I really do. My BF walked out without even leaving a note in April. I came home from work and him and all of his stuff was just....gone. I had no idea what happened, but I was completely devastated. Eventually I emailed him and told him how I felt. He said that he loved me and never wanted to leave, but I was being to hard on him and was too emotional for him at the time (and I was!).
We talked and he moved back in in June. I just wanted you to know that I have been there and I KNOW you feel like life is over and there is nothing else to go on for, but there is. Things are not over, things can get better. I hope you can get some help along the way. Even though he said it's over, the fact that he said he loves you means that there may be SOME hope of getting back together. BJ
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Oct 06, 2008, 05:33 PM
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I know how you feel. My BF didn't even give me the courtesy of a face-to-face exchange. It was over email. and it took me a long time to get over him, but I eventually did. It's the only time in my life my eating came to an almost complete halt (I have a tendancy to binge rather), and it came when I was really going through a rough patch and needed him. You do move on, but it can take a lot of time.
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Oct 06, 2008, 07:05 PM
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((SGF)))))
this is one of the hardest things anyone ever has to go thru, this time of feeling unwanted, unloved, not good enuf... it feels like he's told you all those things and you think he might be right and if he is then that would mean you will always be alone and never have anyone, any happiness, any fun or friends or any good thing ever... sending hugs and care.... |
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Oct 06, 2008, 09:04 PM
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Oh Molly! I am soo soo sorry. I feel your pain so so much. It feels like the world is going to end--and for you, a part of your world as you knew it is over, but a new chapter is beginning. He loves you, honey. He may need to find out within him just what that means. It is usually something different for men than it is for women, but it is love. It may mean he will find his way back to you, you just don't know yet what is to come. Allow yourself to grieve--it's ok. It hurts and you are allowed to cry. But please believe it isn't due to any flaw in you. You aren't bad, worthless or anything else like that. I'm so sorry you are hurting so bad. ((((((((((((((molly)))))))))) I'll sit with you as long as you'd like.
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