[nakamura]

Does anyone date or is married to someone in the service and has any advice how to salvage a relationship.. All advice and help is welcomed

[4everlonely]

Originally Posted by nakamura

Does anyone date or is married to someone in the service and has any advice how to salvage a relationship.. All advice and help is welcomed

my daughter is married to a marine. when he came back from iraq he wasnt the same. he needs therapy but its hard to get him to go. it is tearing their marriage apart. there is help through the service(if married)that you can go to, usually on base. I guess it would depend on your situation really before anyone can give you more advice. are you married, do you live on base, has he been sent to iraq or other place and if so did he come back different? let me know some more.

[nakamura]

Originally Posted by 4everlonely

my daughter is married to a marine. when he came back from iraq he wasnt the same. he needs therapy but its hard to get him to go. it is tearing their marriage apart. there is help through the service(if married)that you can go to, usually on base. I guess it would depend on your situation really before anyone can give you more advice. are you married, do you live on base, has he been sent to iraq or other place and if so did he come back different? let me know some more.

Ok, well my girlfriend just joined the Air Force. She is in her tech school did the training. Well I knew a year ago before we sarted dating that she was going there. I didnt think much of it at the time, but when it came down to it. She wanted me to stick around. And how I feel about her I was like of course. Well through the course of her training we found out how fond of each other we really were. Now then after we talked about getting married since her life is starting and me being college, my life is starting as well. Well we planned on getting married after her first four years. Well, i do fully realize that the Service when youtr there comes first. Now she can talk and use her phone regulary almost as a civiiian. I just wanted to take the advantage of talking to her. But now her attitude has totally changed of we talked about and she thinks I want to take up her time. What made her changee her mind. I mean I found that she is the one to be with for my life, a big step for me I mat add. She is just totally off the whole relationship thing. Is it the air force?
is it the service. I honestly did not do anything wrong I just want this to work..

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