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#1
Dec 15, 2008, 05:29 PM
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Sorry about posting this in another thread, just didn;'t want anyone to worry...
I might not be around, I'll take care of myself. It's just that 'he's' cutting the power to my room. He's really scared me tonight...  I don't know what I'm gonna do though, PC's like my lifeline sometimes. Feel safe here.  love you alloh I don't want to post this, I don't know whether I should... I need to go downstairs too but I'm scared sorry
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Dec 15, 2008, 06:46 PM
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*hugs* i'm sorry that this is happening, i hope you can come back soon
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Dec 15, 2008, 07:10 PM
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Moon
Sorry you are feeling like this, I know is diffucult to confront many of our issues. Get back soon, I really will miss you!! Any help or support you can let me a message. Love you Gennoah Quote:
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#4
Dec 15, 2008, 09:37 PM
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((((((((((molly))))))) i will miss you a lot...
hope you can comeback soon... how i wish i could be there for you in real life... maybe we need magic door dont make me miss you so much...we all need you here... please stay safe...
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Dec 15, 2008, 10:05 PM
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((((((((((((((( molly ))))))))))))))))))))))
I am sorry that you are going through this, I really wish that there was a way to get you out of this situation. Sending you many hugs.
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#6
Dec 15, 2008, 10:13 PM
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Molly....please sweety, please try to find a way out. I will miss you...your clouds will be waiting. Please take care of YOU, be safe.
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Dec 15, 2008, 11:32 PM
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I am so sorry.
 Next time you get a chance, come back on here and tell us how you're doing. We'll miss you.
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#8
Dec 16, 2008, 02:35 AM
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i'd like to know how you are doing as well. so please post the next chance you get!
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#9
Dec 17, 2008, 12:21 PM
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(((((((((everyone))))))))))
I gotta be careful... at the moment I have electricity (he says I won't have it at the weekend), but I gotta be careful of when I come online... better doing it when he's not around. So I'm here for now... Last couple of days have been hard and the night before last was really really difficult for me, today has just started to get iffy again... just got home (I've been at the school this week, doing their concerts and things... 'Santa' is going to turn up to surprise them tomorrow  )... the kids have kept my spirits up throughout the daytimes.  Molly edit: I spoke too soon
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#10
Dec 17, 2008, 08:13 PM
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molly, i'm fairly new here and don't know the specifics of your situation. having said that, i lived in fear for 10 years of my adult life in a violent relationship. i hope you will consider how dangerous this situation, you are in, is. or at least your post sounds like you're in danger or being controlled. i feel i don't need to know the info cause i've lived what you are going through now. i hope you will be safe. your posts are always so supportive to others. do you have support in your life? i truly hope so. we're always here for you too...
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#11
Dec 18, 2008, 07:15 AM
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please you are such a kind caring person, dont allow this to carry on after the new year, your children will suffer, if you cant get on the internet at home take the children to the libray on saturdays you can use the internet for a while there at a small cost no more than a fiver, it will also mean your out of the house,
i am here like so many others ready to listen, dont suffer alone (((((((((((((silver moon))))))))))))))))
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#12
Dec 18, 2008, 07:51 AM
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Yes. please get out if you can, let us know how you are.
we will miss you here.....(((((silvermoon))))) Colleen |
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#13
Dec 18, 2008, 10:16 AM
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please try to build a stronger in real life support group for yourself also Moon, that way when you cant connect to the computer you can still find someone to care..
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#14
Dec 18, 2008, 11:24 AM
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(((((((moon)))))))
we care .... you are going to get out of this situation, I just know it. I just know you will. when you get out of there, things will calm down. the library sounds like a great place to get online, find resources, and see us too, and your kids can read in 'quiet time' and explore the world of books, it's a good stop off in your day, I think. maybe there are house shares where another single parent is looking for someone to help... and pitch in, and you can barter, or better yet, with a share, you can help each other for awhile, and afford it, while you are getting on your feet in the world, without the chains to your fathers house. I hope whatever you do, remember, these situations are temporary, and you can always move on to the next experience, whatever is best for you and your children... you are not locked in to any situation, and you can move forward... you can do it! I trust you can! I know you can! also, I was thinking, some people need house-sitters, people to live in their homes because they are rarely there. That may help you get your money together also. plus, there may be a woman group around that can help you, find you a place, help you set up, and even help with groceries and such, till you get situated, maybe for a short while. check in your area, okay. be resourceful, you have it in you. you can do this Dear Molly, I know you can! Love and Support, night xoxo 
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Dec 18, 2008, 11:49 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((( molly ))))))))))))))))))))
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Dec 18, 2008, 03:54 PM
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nightbird has given you some good ideas,
here is a couple of links, http://www.shelter.org.uk/ http://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/ http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com/2008/09/emotional-abuse-or-going-crazy.html http://www.leedswomensaid.org.uk/ remember we are here if you need anything
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Dec 20, 2008, 07:09 PM
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Thanks everyone and thank you so much for the links, I'll write them down and have a look at them when I get chance. The library is a good idea, it will get me out of the house too.
I think some wires have been crossed somewhere though... I don't have any children (not a single mum)... I work at a school with young children and I think I mention it's the kids there that keep my spirits up... they really do, I love having something to look forward to and to get up for. I'm not at risk of anything... I hate people worrying and I think that may be a reason I'm unable to open up about my problems. I feel like I'm digging myself a big hole. I don't know
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Dec 22, 2008, 07:02 AM
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i understand that we dont want others to worry for us Moon.. i kept so much inside and i advise you now that finding ways to openly connect with caring others is the best way to survive a long lifetime..
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