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Dec 29, 2008, 11:51 AM
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here is a post i should of written a long time ago, i thought it would help both of us if hubby and i joined a great mental health site, yes i mean psychcentral. we both love pc a lot and enjoy being here,
but reacently hubby has withdrwan in his posting, i used to be able to tell how he was feeling from his poems and his videos, but it seems there is no feelings to see, i ask and all i get is fine, ok but i know hes not well and hurting inside but why i never know, he has a hard time telling me let alone others, so from one day to the next i look for clues, from snapping at kids to making jokes, as if he isnt well i need to decide when to contact the doctors when not to hopefully next week he is going to get his meds changed its going to take time as he has to have them weaned out of his system before they give him new ones, and in this time i know its going to be hard, his moods are going to be all over the place sorry for the whine
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#2
Dec 29, 2008, 12:14 PM
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never a whine, pc is here to listen to people in times of trouble. i hope things get better for you and your hubby soon, make sure you take some time for yourself.
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Dec 29, 2008, 06:04 PM
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*hugs*
good luck
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Dec 29, 2008, 06:13 PM
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(((((((( Kathy and Dec ))))))))
 You know how to contact me if either of you need to talk.
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Dec 29, 2008, 08:31 PM
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(((((kathy))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) you are never whining.....
Its so hard when the other person in your life is hurting as you hurt too as you love him ((TRM)) I know when he says fine its like my *ok* I know you love him very much and are worryed... You just him to communcate with you his feelings which maybe stuck? He will get there.... You know i care about you both Muffy |
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Dec 29, 2008, 08:58 PM
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(((((((((( Kathy & Dec ))))))))))))
Both of you have made it through so very much in your lives. This situation will be no different....you will both make it through. Up and down and all around....the ride may be tiring and stressful. But the friends you have here at PC will help along the way to give you breaks when you need it, some peaceful thoughts and hugs and maybe a joke or two to break the cycle of yuck. Keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers......keep reaching out to us! sabby |
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Dec 30, 2008, 07:41 AM
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(((Katheryn & Dec)))) i dont see this as a whine Kathy, this is a request for support through what is a difficult time for you.. that is why we are here, to listen and care, understand, offer a hand or an ear, whatever we can do to help, for we are helped in our process of helping others, it shows and builds a community that we can contribute into, and receive from in the time of need we have of our own... time is my biggest consideration, not quality or quantity... i care for you both as well as the rest here, and i try to make time for everyone.. if you've missed my support in the past i apologize.. i am always available to you or Dec via PM
 take care, caring one
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Dec 30, 2008, 10:50 AM
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 ((((((((((((((((( kathy and dec )))))))))))))))))
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Dec 30, 2008, 11:11 AM
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((((((((((dingoroo))))))))))))))
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Dec 30, 2008, 11:11 AM
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Dec 30, 2008, 11:12 AM
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thank you pegasus ((((((((((((pegasus)))))))))))))
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Dec 30, 2008, 11:13 AM
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(((((((((((muffy))))))))))))
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Dec 30, 2008, 11:14 AM
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I think I might know how dec feels, I feel like saying nothing as well.
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr 
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Dec 30, 2008, 11:15 AM
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yes you are right sabby we have come through so much in our time togeather, (((((((((((((sabby))))))))))))
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Dec 30, 2008, 11:17 AM
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thank you nowheretorun sometimes it is hard to ask for suport for ourselves, and this post wasnt having a go saying you havent been here for us, as we all get suport from pc in diferant ways sometimes just looking at the pics in games helps ((((((((((((nwtr))))))))))))))
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Dec 30, 2008, 11:18 AM
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(((((((((((((((fuzzy)))))))))))))) ty for your hugs always apricated
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Dec 31, 2008, 07:36 AM
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((((((((((((((((((((((((((((kathy and dec)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) I hope the med change goes better than you fear. Sometimes it is just hard to get the words out when we are hurting.
BB
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