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Old Jan 23, 2009, 06:25 PM
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I got triggered today and just do not care anymore...Just so sad, depressed, lonely, hurt...the list goes on and on...


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Old Jan 23, 2009, 06:45 PM
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I'm sorry you got triggered, do you want to talk about it here?

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Old Jan 23, 2009, 09:20 PM
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what's up, aries mars...r u comfortable sharing that with us? maybe we can help...
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Old Jan 24, 2009, 07:26 PM
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I got triggered today and just do not care anymore...Just so sad, depressed, lonely, hurt...the list goes on and on...

ARIESMARS,

A MILLION OF HUGS AND KISSES TO YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE ARE DEPRESSED, SAD AND LONELY. I HOPE YOU FEEL BETTER AS THE DAY GO ON. WHAT HAPPENED TO MAKE YOU FEEL THIS WAY. I ASK THIS BECAUSE I AM GOING THROUGH SOME PERSONAL PROBLEMS RIGHT NOW AND SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE I WILL NEVER GET THROUGH THEM. LETS KEEP IN TOUCH AND TRY AND HELP EACH OTHER.
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I got triggered today and just do not care anymore...Just so sad, depressed, lonely, hurt...the list goes on and on...


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Old Jan 25, 2009, 06:51 PM
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I got triggered today and just do not care anymore...Just so sad, depressed, lonely, hurt...the list goes on and on...


Yes ariesmars, please tell us about it?
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Old Jan 28, 2009, 07:28 PM
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few things, i guess.

1. a girl i work with, that i think likes me, is no longer working with me. she was so nice and i wanted to talk to her, but she no longer with me. I feel so hurt about it.

2. i feel my T hurt me last session, because she talked and said "get over it" instead of trying to understand me and find the reason things bother me.

3. and i feel hurt that others get replied to so many times and i just get one or two and then that is it. it is like i am just not worth anything so people just pass me by. I know i should take part, but i have AS and socially it is too hard to intiate the conversaytion. Even on a forum, others have to start it and keep it going.
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Old Jan 28, 2009, 07:58 PM
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How are you feeling today hun? Have you tried the games forum? There are a lot of people there who make a lot of posts and it is easy to just kinda jump in and stay with the convo.
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Old Jan 28, 2009, 10:37 PM
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few things, i guess.

1. a girl i work with, that i think likes me, is no longer working with me. she was so nice and i wanted to talk to her, but she no longer with me. I feel so hurt about it.

2. i feel my T hurt me last session, because she talked and said "get over it" instead of trying to understand me and find the reason things bother me.

3. and i feel hurt that others get replied to so many times and i just get one or two and then that is it. it is like i am just not worth anything so people just pass me by. I know i should take part, but i have AS and socially it is too hard to intiate the conversaytion. Even on a forum, others have to start it and keep it going.
thank you for replying to our questions, (((aries))). sometimes i've posted something and don't get many replies but i know that there may be other factors for this. there are so many of us posting that i'm sure my posts sometimes get lost in the mix. use the help icon so we know you need immediate attention if at all possible.
did your T really use that term "get over it"? i for one would be looking for another T if you can. that's not an acceptable answer, imho. whether our perception is skewed or not, we all have feelings that need to be validated or acknowledged. i'm sorry this happened to you. i'd bring this up at my next session if i were you.
as for that girl, do you have her cell number? u might want to give her a call and just say hi, how goes it? nice surprises happen everyday if we just look for them.
meantime you post and let us know how you are doing, k? i care.
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Old Feb 02, 2009, 11:25 PM
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ok, feeling better. I seen that girl on Sunday and it was great. I spent time with her, and she was teasing me and smiled alot. I had lots of fun with her. So things are going good so far. But today i seen my slp and her mother passed away a few weeks ago and i thought i was ok with it, but it hit me again and i feel very depressed because of her loss and all the things that she will miss. And i dont know how to handle it...someone please help...
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