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Mar 13, 2009, 10:42 AM
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not sure if its the depression or what it is but everything seems to be getting to me lately. next door neighbours daughter is 13 and just keeps pushing my buttons, she comes over as if she owns the place, wears my clothes without asking and arghhhh
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Mar 13, 2009, 11:33 AM
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teary,
you have got more patience than I would--I'd tell the kid to knock it off, they are my clothes, then I'd change locks... She is over stepping boundaries and invading "your space." My rant over... Is there anything in particular that happened or did things kind of pile up? Ya know sometimes it's all right to get in a pissy mood and pamper yourself out of it. Do you have anything special that you like to do and could treat yourself to it? Peace and Power, Cap
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Mar 13, 2009, 11:49 AM
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 teary me!I wouldn't be too happy with someone presuming that they can do whatever they like, either. Are you a teenager or adult? If a teen, blame your parents. Tell her that they don't want your clothes getting dirty so fast, and ho you had to listen to some long story about the cost of water, detergent, and the effect on environment, etc. Blah, blah, blah. So, you don't push that issue with them. If you're an adult, don't allow her to come inside. Say that you have other things going on, you're busy. Or you may tell her she can come in but tell her in advance not to expect to wear your clothes. Explain that they're personal to you, and you just don't feel comfortable with her wearing them. Best wishes to you hon! Shez |
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Mar 13, 2009, 12:23 PM
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teary I agree I think you may need to talk to the parents plus the child imo
and keep your door locked so she can not get in imo |
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Mar 13, 2009, 05:53 PM
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Time to lock the door and keep the 13 yr old out and treat yourself to something special.
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Mar 14, 2009, 02:01 AM
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Sweety, use that anger for something positive! Let it motivate you to draw a clear boundry for you to protect your stuff and your feelings. Tell her as nicely as you can, but if she won't listen then don't be afraid to say what you feel. I'll be thinking of you.
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Mar 14, 2009, 02:44 PM
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You're feeling depressed because you are not adequately expressing your emotions - especially your anger.
I just bet that you are angry about a lot of things and you are simply focusing on this girl to represent all the people you are truly mad at.
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Mar 14, 2009, 04:44 PM
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Jmo, but I think depression is the result of many things. It can be ongoing from bottling up our emotions, but it can also be situational.
Many times we feel overwhelmed for various reasons. Perhaps focusing on an individual or just one event is because it is the one that is hurting us the most... Cap
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