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Mar 19, 2009, 08:35 PM
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i feel right scared about my future. my future of being alone.
i'm afraid to be alone, without that special someone. that is one of the major concerns that i have right now. that i will never get to meet or be with a guy who i will fall in love with. i dont want to end being by myself and that makes me depressed as hell. I may end alone but i don't want to feel lonely anymore. *tear*omg, why did it had to be me? why couldnt i be a normal girl? |
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Mar 19, 2009, 09:08 PM
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Mar 19, 2009, 09:09 PM
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Dear Rose
You never have to feel alone and unloved because there is always someone there for everyone.The feelings of despair and frustration that you think there is never going to be a special person in your life is perfectly normal , It is a scary feeling but a normal one . we all feel it at one time or another.but it will pass and you will wonder what all the fuss was about  Seeing that you have found this forum many people will be able to offer support and love to you and friendly advice so you don't feel so alone. It isnt just a girl thing either . many young men run around in circles feeling lost and frightened of the future but there is always a light out there guiding you/them just take a deep breath and keep going until the fear is replaced by hope and love. I hope that breaks the feeling of being alone for you 
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Mar 19, 2009, 09:34 PM
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iam sorry you have to feel lonely but someday the right guy willl comes and you not gonna be lonely anymore...hope it will comes soon
hugs....
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Mar 20, 2009, 07:36 AM
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((((((((((((((( Sadnessrose ))))))))))))))))
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Mar 20, 2009, 09:40 AM
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(((((sadnessrose)))))
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Mar 20, 2009, 02:38 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((((((sadnessrose))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
I know exactly how you feel! The loneliness is AWFUL. You just want someone to be there to hold you, to make you feel less alone, to make you feel loved and validated and alive. Right now, try focusing on yourself. Try to love yourself. I've learned from experience that no matter how many wonderful people are in your life, no matter who loves you, you will never be properly happy until you can love yourself as well. Be gentle and kind with yourself and know that you are not alone.
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