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Mar 27, 2009, 12:02 AM
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i dont get it......am i that horrible of a personthat no one wants to love me
 i finally think i have hope see somethign tht culd make me happy.....but no it instantly just brings me down again not fair i am so sick of living this way.sorry just needed to get that out 
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Mar 27, 2009, 12:24 AM
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(((((((((((((( Img ))))))))))))))))
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Mar 27, 2009, 06:12 AM
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Oh I can't tell you how many times I've felt like that!! Please know that when we think there is something wrong with us, generally it isn't us. It's that we haven't found the right person to be with.
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Mar 27, 2009, 10:27 AM
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(((((((((((( lmg )))))))))))))
I am sending you loads of hugs, I am sorry that you are feeling down.
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Mar 27, 2009, 06:43 PM
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there's nothing wrong with you that would make ppl not want to love u, img, imho. you have been a good friend to me and your good qualities shine through.
 did something happen to make you feel so down on yourself? if you are comfortable with sharing it with us perhpas we can help ease your sadness...or u can pm me anytime...sometimes life just doesn't feel fair. i feel that way sometimes too. but know that we do value you and care for you.
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Mar 27, 2009, 10:16 PM
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glad you could rant, hope things get better though
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Mar 27, 2009, 10:37 PM
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I'm so sorry you are feeling this way. I've been desperate enough to feel dead inside, but didn't want to die. I hope you aren't suicidal. I don't know you, but I'm sure you have people who love you. You have people here too, who will talk and listen if you need it. Just click on me if you want to talk, and I promise I won't blah blah you.
Like I said, I know how it feels, and I hope I can help if you want. 
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Mar 28, 2009, 03:18 PM
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The sad truth is that most of us here are not "easy" to love. We are not easy people to be with or to live with. This is the challenge that we face. It doesn't mean we should give up, but we should acknowledge that it will be very hard work to meet up with a person who appreciates us for who we are - illness and all.
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Mar 28, 2009, 04:30 PM
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Lmg, you are very loveable. Don't feel like you have to have it right now this minute. The best things in life take time. You are very young. It will come when it's time, and probably when you least expect it. In the mean time, think of all the things you like about yourself. And know there is love for you here.
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Mar 29, 2009, 05:57 AM
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That was good to get out and out of your way... now that that's removed from your brain today... fill it with beautiful affirmations about yourself, and tell that brain of yours you are serious about getting the junk out, and hear yourself saying that you are lovable, attractive, worthy of others love, and of being a special love to one other, and how loyal, kind, friendly, generous of spirit and heart you are, among the other things you already know too, like you are creative, talented, gifted, and whatever else you know about yourself...
Tell your cells, tell your heart, and then look in the mirror and say that I love you and an lovable to others... say it until you believe it, because the truth is, I have discovered, is that our bodies and minds listen to us, so we need to get the junk out, and the good valuable thoughts in... it may seem like work at first, but the proof is in the pudding ! There are tons of books filled with affirmations you can try, so find one that speaks to you, and use it! Peace and Love Awaiting You, Night xoxo 
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Mar 29, 2009, 09:15 PM
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"...am i that horrible of a person..."
I have been asking myself this exact question for 2 months. I dwell on this question. Most of the time, I think the answer is: "Yes, I must be a horrible person. How else to 'justify' all the things that are going wrong in my life?" But one of my friends keeps telling me that is an unhealthy question to ask myself. The rational side of me knows he's correct, but the emotional side of me continues to think that I'm just pathetic. It's surprising that other people wonder about this, too. I thought I was the only one. |
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Mar 30, 2009, 03:55 PM
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I think we've all been there a time or two. Depression does that to us! Find something that you enjoy doing, such as reading a book and try to get your mind off of that feeling. Good luck!
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