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Old Jun 02, 2009, 09:51 PM
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Too many stresses to deal with . I can't do it anymore. I can't fight it any more. and I'm sick of my own whining.
No job for husband, cancer surgery, mother making problems again, house renovations in limbo, ME in limbo....I don't want to go to therapy now because I am trying to hold everything inside.

No MORE!

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Old Jun 02, 2009, 10:23 PM
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you may have to let some of this out inside it will only build up and build up.

It sounds crazy over there - try to take things one small thing at a time. Dont be afraid to ask for help from the people around you, if you can.
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Old Jun 02, 2009, 10:34 PM
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You need a release of some sort. Please email me if you'd like.
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Old Jun 02, 2009, 11:03 PM
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i hope if you're not talking here you're talking to someone hon. You're not whining. You have several severe stressors in your life atm. No one here is going to blame you for sharing your heavy load. i wish you would.

i'm so sorry for all the challenges you're facing. i believe in your strength.
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Old Jun 04, 2009, 12:12 AM
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sounds like things are very, very overwhelming. it is not whining to tell what is bothering you or making life seem just too much to bear. anyone would be upset if they faced what is happening in your life in their life. i sure would.

we are all like pressure cookers, if the heat and pressure build up to a certain point we must let some out or we explode.

can you do something to help comfort yourself? if you let your friends support you on here maybe it will help you hold things together longer and better.

i am sorry you face so much difficulty now, i would be overwhelmed too if this were my life. sending you many hugs and gentle words,

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Old Jun 04, 2009, 10:13 AM
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COME HERE AND GET IT ALL OUT IT IS NOT WHINING.....IF YOU DONT IT MIGHT SPILL OUT WITHOUT CONTROL

DONNA
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Old Jun 04, 2009, 02:59 PM
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Old Jun 04, 2009, 08:56 PM
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You CAN do this--with everyone's help. With help here, with T's help...
You can do it. Breath. Have a mini melt down. Don't hold it in. Let T and us help.
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Old Jun 05, 2009, 10:55 PM
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This is too much to bear alone. Please let us help.

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Old Jun 08, 2009, 04:54 PM
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You have a heck of a lot going on in your world. Try not to hold it all inside, You are always free in here and you are accepted. Gentle hugs to you sweetie

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Too many stresses to deal with . I can't do it anymore. I can't fight it any more. and I'm sick of my own whining.
No job for husband, cancer surgery, mother making problems again, house renovations in limbo, ME in limbo....I don't want to go to therapy now because I am trying to hold everything inside.

No MORE!
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Old Jun 09, 2009, 12:37 PM
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you r definitely not whinin...an im glad u felt safe enuf ta share it with us here...know that we will be here iffn u need ta talk...u can just pm us ne time...an know that ur statin facts an that dont mean u r doin ne whinin...im glad that u r here an that u find us ta b safe...everyone here understands what u r goin thru...how ur feelin a lot of us have already felt...an we r prayin for u too...

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Old Jun 09, 2009, 10:34 PM
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Surgery is all done and I'm home to recover. I hope you are all doing well my friends.
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Old Jun 09, 2009, 10:36 PM
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Thank you all for your love and compassion. You've helped me more than you'll ever know.
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