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#1
Sep 18, 2009, 07:23 PM
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I will be taking a break from the DD forum. I will still stop by to read posts and offer support, but I will not be posting threads any more! If I have offended any one on this site I am sorry and I can assure you that it was not my intention, sometimes my words come out a lot more harsh than they are meant and for that I am sorry.
I try to stand up for myself and others and sometimes get a bit emotional and I no longer wish for problems in the DD forum to be in any way my fault so I am taking myself away from the situation! Again I still will be offering my support just refraining from asking for support! I hope all of you are well and I hope that things in here get better soon! Take care all! |
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#2
Sep 18, 2009, 08:18 PM
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hi i am sorry to hear that you don't want to post here anymore. Is there still problems here in DD because i thought everything was resolved now. We hope you will re consider as we think you are understanding member of this forum and have a lot of good advice experience and care for others. Look after yourself. Sapphire.
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#3
Sep 18, 2009, 09:11 PM
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I'll still support as much as I can but for now my problems and things will be on hold! Thanks for your comment you are very kind!!!
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Sep 18, 2009, 09:37 PM
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Like I said before in chat if you ever need support while you don't want to post here you can pm me any time, or chat with me if I'm in chat
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Sep 18, 2009, 09:46 PM
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I appreciate that you are so supportive of everyone, but I am sorry to hear that you are choosing to no longer seek support for yourself at this time.
Please remember, this IS a choice that YOU are making. Personally, (my opinion ~ I know, you didn't ask) I think you could learn and grow more by continuing to look for support, while at the same time working toward accepting that support. I also think it would be good practice for you to improve the emotional mind/rational mind balance to get you to more of a wise mind place. This takes practice!! And if you just stop, then you will not be able to build your skills. I feel you see this in a black and white way...we are either good people or we are bad people. We are either for you, or against you. Really, it is more about dialectics!! We are for you, yet we can see where you can make improvements and we want to offer our support and opinions on how you could do this. It is possible for something to be good and bad at the same time. It's about balance.  Anyway...if you've made up your mind...no one here is going to change it. Just know that YOU can change it at anytime and we will be here when you decide you are ready to learn, grow, and ask for support. After all...that's why we're all here!!
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#6
Sep 18, 2009, 10:08 PM
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Thank you Elysium but I can no longer post on this forum... Not right now at least. I am trying to balance the feelings of myself and all those with me and trying to keep my head on straight and it does not seem like this is happening. I do not however see people as black and white, when people say things that offend me, I do not hate them or think they are bad. I just think what was said was bad. Everyone here is wonderful and I will support anyone I can, I just feel I should leave my problems out of the forum for the time being.
I hope you are well! Take care! |
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#7
Sep 21, 2009, 02:04 PM
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well, if you feel this is the right thing to do, i'll stand behind you
 hope to see you posting again, though, when you feel ready. twilight
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Sep 24, 2009, 04:14 PM
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I just wanted to add, without posting a new thread or anything... If people come in the chat needing support and I'm not saying much besides "I'm sorry" it's nothing personal at all and I really am sorry if any of you are feeling bad, but lately I can't seem to find that support I used to give. I don't know what is going on but I've just been out of it lately and can never think of anything to say besides "I'm sorry".
Hopefully this will pass, and I don't know where it's coming from but that's also why I haven't been posting a lot of support in the forums as well... I hope all of you are well and if I haven't been supportive enough of any of you, I am terribly sorry!!! |
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Sep 24, 2009, 04:47 PM
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Kris ~
It's okay to not have anything to give. I've been there too. You have nothing to apologize for as far as not being able to offer support. No one here keeps a log of who is offering more support or less. We all give when we can, and when we can't, we take a break and just read and say...."I'm sorry".It's all good. Be patient with yourself!!
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