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Old Oct 20, 2009, 09:01 AM
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Old Oct 20, 2009, 09:06 AM
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wondering how long I can stay away from pc from.
needing a break
probably some will be angry with me for abandoning them
i'm guessing a few will be relieved
impossible to please everyone
so why even try to.
I will be honest here, and say that everytime you say you are going away, it makes me feel like you are punishing us. Threatening and manipulating. BUT that is MY stuff. Obviously you are not like that. You must do what ever you need to do to feel safe.

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Old Oct 20, 2009, 09:06 AM
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That is exactly why i deleted
whatever i do i freakin piss someone off!!!
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Old Oct 20, 2009, 09:08 AM
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I don't mind you pissing me off! Because I love you what ever you do. You don't need to keep deleting, say what you feel, don't delete and then you will feel better.

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Old Oct 20, 2009, 09:09 AM
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)))) everyone ((((

thanks for caring pegasus. I know you care. I hoped I'd have deleted it before you got there. Lots of people say they are taking breaks and then don't .. it triggers me too.
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Old Oct 20, 2009, 09:29 AM
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I think its worth adding here, MY opinion.
Our triggers belong to us. I did feel like I needed a break but didn't sit with that feeling and pain for long enough before I posted.

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Old Oct 20, 2009, 09:34 AM
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My dear friend, I hope you know how much I care and love ya. Our exchange here has been blunt but I hope you will view it as being supportive to you. Do what is best for you. Sending a great big hug...

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Old Oct 20, 2009, 11:33 AM
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Old Oct 20, 2009, 12:43 PM
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Did you know that you are right Fuzzy? That our triggers do belong to us, that is so wise. But you know my T told me today that sometimes when we do things that seem to hurt others, it's our own protector coming out, to make others know how we felt at the time we were hurt if we are triggered? When I say our own protector I mean the hurt person inside who puts our defences up for us .. sometimes this seems as though we are punishing others when in fact we are just showing others how WE felt .... am I making any sense?? Gosh I'm useless at explaining .... I'll shut up now


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Old Oct 20, 2009, 04:12 PM
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I'm sorry if I upset you.

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Old Oct 20, 2009, 11:31 PM
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Thanks everyone. You didn't upset me pegasus, its good you said what was on your mind. Sometimes I feel that way too when someone says they are taking a break... punished...as well as abandoned. But I also know that is my stuff. I'm trying to post how I'm feeling and I know not everyone will "like" everything I say, its not possible. I was upset for a short time but I admire you for your honesty. I have never found you "mean". Its all about how things are said.. often. And we are all learning, everyone on pc.

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