[multipixie9]

i want to do things, adult things like get my prescriptions and cook a decent dinner and do the effing chores that a house needs. It is boring but i need to do it and my finky littles are getting in my way. They want to eat cookies for breakfast and watch tv and do absolutely nothing. They hate to cook and are completely sabotaging my adult life.

gronups is stupid an no fun at all. They worree an fuss an get mad if we wanna hav fun an don wanna sweep up dust bunnies an cleen da baffrom. Ook. I hate cleenin baffrooms. I hate dum adults and i'm gonna run away frum home an nevr cum bak ever. Stupid adults stink arggghhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Miracle1986]

Maybe you could tell the littles that this needs to get done and find someway to reward them if they are good and let you do what needs to be done.

[Eriksplus]

I agree with Manda86.
Work out a plan for you & the children you can all enjoy & benifit from.
(Webber)Erik

[Hunny]

We care for you ((((((((((All))))))))). It's so dang frustrating, hope it gets resolved internally and some peace be restored. We love it when things are cleaned up and tidy and we like rewards too.

(Warning: We are pretty sure this little fellow is eating like we do when we are eating for those reasons other than health. Isn't he/she cute, if only it wasn't what we do to self-soothe. hmmm)









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[Jewels]

(((((((((((((((((((((pixies))))))))))))))))))))))

is frustratin ta b sure...heres hopin u is doin better today...

abbi

[WePow]

Little Ones can be very helpful with adult things... but we as the adult host have to guide them the way we would an outside child. Give them rewards like hugs inside and praise for doing things that you as the adult host want them to do. Also, give them chances to help with things that are adult that they might enjoy. Not just the chores. Let them go hide when it is chore time.

For example, my Little One last week at the end of therapy packed up my purse to make sure I didn't forget anything like my T journal or pen. Well, she got into that and since T likes her it helps. She was anxious to show him how well behaved she is becoming and packed it all away. Well, as I was leaving the office I noticed I didn't have my water bottle and stared looking around to see where I left it. T was helping me look for it. Then I heard Little One say "I PACKED IT AWAY!" I opened my purse and there it was!!! T and I both laughed about that one!

:-) Tons of safe hugs to the Littles :-)

[pegasus]

One little job at a time and then MASSIVE rewards for each job done.

Hugs

[turquoisesea]

((((((((((((((((pixies))))))))))))))))))))))))

[Fuzzybear]

((((((((((((((( pixies )))))))))))))))

[multipixie9]

THANK YOU ALL FOR THE GOOD SUGGESTIONS AND LIGHT HUMOR.

We have trouble with organization because of programming done to keep us confused so we could never get the power that comes from being able to plan and carry out an agenda.

We have no light inside to see each other and no one who is the actual leader. Our host was programmed to go into confusion when pain occurs or memories come up. We know it sounds kinda lame, but we've read books and tried to follow ANY plan and every time things go cyclone inside my brain. maybe this sounds like an excuse. I've just been trying so long and not getting close to it.

Someday we will find the way. This time of year is hard for us and we are going to our childhood home on Thursday to visit our dad for first time in almost 2 years and visits home challenge stability.

bye Ya'll

[Hunny]

Multi,

This confusion/chaos, I/we know of it, well!

I/we use therapy and other tools we have learned as our little light and it is dim. Not b/c of therapy but because the confusion was their tool.

Protection on you all for Thursday.

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[multipixie9]

Thanks Hunny Bunny and all of you. I appreciate you sharing what has helped you. See Ya

[WePow]

Multi - understand the programming deal - so safe hugs to you. Keep on trying. You CAN reprogram your selves. It is hard and will take the help of a T who works with that type of situation. But it can be done.

[Miri]

Please, please take care of yourself!!! Put a shield around you that will protect you from what frightend you. I am sending you a candle to take inside. It is a tiny candle, a pink birthday cake candle that has a tiny flame so it won't scare anyone. I am making it especially for you, a candle that will never go out, never burn down unless you want to to. If you want to light it again later, then just wish for that and it will light up all by itself. It isn't hot and won't burn any little fingers. I'm sending it to you very slowly so that you can see it coming all the way from where i live, far away from you. If you don't like the candle, hold up your hand and it will fly back to me, but if it is okay, it can be a way to see just a little bit, just what is safe.
(((((((Be Safe))))))))
Miri

[multipixie9]

thank u 4 bein nis miri. we preshate u. pees don be mad dat we not want u candle. dey had candls an we reele scard of dem an candls. we lik u, we hate dem. byby we don lik enefing dat maks us fink of dem. oooh scarry. bad vere bad. we go now an we scart

pixees

umm, owr big help us. she tel jeesus an he sed he mak a lit for us an dat he finks u vere nis to wana hep us. now we okiedokie agin. u ok? he sed he mak lites 4 u 2. byby agin

[Miri]

I know you probably have a hard time believing this, but you are precious, so very precious. I'm sorry - i took a chance knowing maybe my gift might not be a safe one. Maybe someday. I'm glad that Jesus has offered you the best Light of all, and i thank you for your intercession on my behalf.
Loving thoughts,
Miri

[multipixie9]

Dear Miri,

Leslie the host is writitng today for us all. We are all filled with joy today and some of us adults also wished the littles could accept your gift. We KNOW your heart is pure and so is your gift. We adults are having to learn to hear the pixies better; we used to just override them and it was not good for anyone. I appreciate you taking the risk for them. Someday they will understand the God's light is so different from any counterfeits.

Today is the favorite day of the year for many of us since 1971 - the day we met Jesus and found His love. It is the reason we are still alive. 38 years of knowing Him at least a little. I could tell you so many trivial details of that day because it is more important than even my marriage and my wonderful children's birth. Thanks for being a wonderful part of this special day.

[Miri]

I am humbled to be included in sharing your joy. Thank you for all of you. Sending blessings of hope.
Miri