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Dec 28, 2009, 03:00 AM
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Since summer we have not spent any alone time with our husband. Everyone is on high alert when he is around now. We had a great Christmas but the relationship strain was very hard on us. I did a foolish thing that was out of character and looking back we may have to not be part of more times with family, when he is there.
in essence it will be fine because the family events are kind of over for a few weeks, so whew! But, we never want to forget our resolve in this. We forgot this last time and got ourselves into this situation, which now we see was better for th bigger picture. *sigh* Not sure why we are saying this...just some reason. 
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Dec 28, 2009, 06:27 PM
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(((Hunny))) if that man is good for you give him hugs from us and tell him he had better take really good care of my wister. ha ha If you love him girl go get him and know that you be woved by all of us.
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Dec 28, 2009, 06:33 PM
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((((( hunny !! ))))))))
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Dec 29, 2009, 12:09 AM
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omg, how did I get thinking about this so far ahead. I am a 12 stepper, we take it one day at a time. Geez, I think I had too much time on my hands, lately dwelling on the above question. Went to my meeting tonight and was reminded that nothing really has changed and that I need to detach with love. Safety first, no matter how much water under the bridge (cause not sure it is love, but it was comfortable). Trouble is if I wrote this at all it maybe should have been in Relationships. So all in all I guess I know the reason I wrote about...ruminating and there is nothing that can be done...only waiting...that is it!
There now is better...for now. Thanks buddies. .
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