The Googer coyotes!

We have a new group of people in our lives. We decided to call them Goober’s. These are coyotes that are taken the time to get to know all of us in the body. Not the Rumors not the lies that others told so that they could hurt us with out repercussions. But US !
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With us going to the New T, we have been dealing with the fears that those with in have learned to have because of the circumstance of the different type of abuse that we have endured because the TGC told everyone and was willing to back up the word that we had a bio disorder and not a PSTD.
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So with her help and our coyotes listening ( it took a lot of screaming to get the BS out of their ears but with T help it getting out) She got the Dalmatian to believe that she no pull the same stunt as the TGC and some of the coyotes have been spending time with us not being JackA.. But those with in still feared that the abuse would happen again by the DS(dark souls) to keep us under control.
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So Saturday the Dalmatians wanted outside time so we stayed near our campground so that we had less of a chance of a DS coming near us. These are one of the times that we do not like vary much because when the Dalmatians are out we are aware but not always able to take over control. One of the Coyotes came out to check on us because we did not fallow our usually routine. At first the Dalmatian was scared and started to run away. But he was able to calm her down and talk with her. He just remaindered her that we had to be safe because of the DS have not forgotten us. She told him we would. We felt her calm down when she realized that she (us) were safe with this person. But the fact that he took the time to find which age group was what really stood out in her mind.
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Then at our Sunday gathering some of the other women invited us to breakfast later this week and we are doing other activities with them. The DS tried to get us going but we just looked at them and told them to leave us alone then the others made them leave us alone. We even got to meet a new coyote that let us just relax and talk with out pressure. We liked the fact that he was willing to allow us to get to know him slowly.
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The hard part did not come until that night when those within where waiting for someone to drag us out of bed to hurt us. We stayed awake for awhile but them we smelt a skunk (a safety for the Dalmatians) those within relaxed and we were able to sleep.
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The next morning a coyote came by to make sure we be safe. It was cool that he was able to just relax and talk with us for a few minutes with out the abuse of the DS. We even rolled over and went back to sleep again. Thanks to the two goobers we felt safe and looked after not like we were in a cage not allowed to have good people in our lifes.
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The top of the story was one of our past abuser came by later then tried to force us to talk to him but those with in felt safe cause we spent time with the goober/coyotes. We just flat out ignored him with the knowledge that we now have other that truly hear us now. He was ticked and went away mad cause he no longer could scare us into doing something we no wanted to do!
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This weekend those with in were able to face our fears with those here. We manage to do what at time feels like the impossible but we did it with the help here and a Good T. Those within have been so overwhelmed with the dark side of our lifes we wanted to share how the positive times can be had with the help of those around you truely listening to you.

Anderson,

Ignoring really is an action, I can see. I used this verb on a person yesterday where we used to work. Brutal person but it was so good to regard her as non-existent yesterday and she walked away - VICTORY!

When our teens are out it would not be safe to be around certain ones, for sure. They are a little too trusting but playful and kind of you know adults would say silly billy, in a fun way.

It seems you are going to do some nice activites with the women there, a few happy things to look forward to this week.

I am so glad the skunk protector came. I wonder if it would be good to call a protector 'skunk' if one was looking for the right name for the hard work it does.

Glad those safe Googer coyotes are there for you to be friendly with.



Hunny