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Dec 24, 2005, 09:23 PM
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Just want to say bye to all! Take care you all!!!
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Dec 24, 2005, 09:47 PM
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(((((skylrks))))) Take care of yourself.
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Dec 25, 2005, 07:37 PM
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Wher you going??
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Dec 25, 2005, 08:26 PM
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why you going?
I don't like it when people go. Did I do something wrong again? alice |
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Dec 25, 2005, 08:59 PM
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Why are you leaving? None of my business but hope it is for good and happy reasons and not painful ones.
Please do what is best and safest for you and take good care. place
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Dec 27, 2005, 09:21 PM
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Things are changing so much. Do not mean to upset anyone. So many hiding now it is so confusing just to be anymore.
want to say good bye so we do not hurt no one no more. anybody understand that? they say that we can change any time cuz we created us right? so confused. don't want to hurt no one. don't even like sign in name no more. how do you not have that any more? send this before it gets deleted. misty |
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Dec 27, 2005, 10:30 PM
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Yes we understand Misty. Sometimes it is very hard and things change so fast and that causes so much confusion. It is like a line of dominoes that gets started and gets very hard to stop. Sometimes it is hard to know what steps to take.
Is it possible to stay and pm? Are you safe? I am not so sure who is saying you can change any time and all that. Change is always a process that sometimes goes smoothly and sometimes causes pain. The most important thing to remember is that your change will happen as it should when it should and for others to say it is wrong or too slow or fast or whatever is just bull. Trust you and yours they are who has kept you safe all these years. You can do this. You are survivors as is witnessed by the fact that you are here.
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#8
Dec 27, 2005, 10:45 PM
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even pms are hard cuz it gets so confusing.
safe? is that as in T, supportive hubby and all that? Nope cuz neither one feels safe any more. have not seen T in over 2-3 months. have pushed pretty much everyone away. I don't know why. That is not really what I want but not sure what I want. I really don't want to say good bye either but it seems like only sollution. more shut out less hastle there is of keeping things straight. srry if i dont make any sence but this is me and i cant help it. I am little i am big i am of one name and others and so called we. so confusing misty |
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Dec 27, 2005, 11:23 PM
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I know what you mean by pushing people away and that not being what you really want.
When we start to get close then it leaves us open to possible pain. So it feels safer to push people away and be alone then we feel like crap because we are alone. It is always a catch 22 type of situation. Go away but stay here all at the same time. Is this what you are saying? Finding a person who you can trust is not the easiest thing to do and then getting past all the problems of trusting them is harder and finally getting them to stay when you are pushing them away with all your might seems almost impossible. Those people are out there though. Those who will say I am here no matter what are out there. I have been so fortunate as to meet a few. Don't worry about keeping pms straight. Just pm a couple of people who understand and you can trust. If you get confused they will understand. Heck I am confused most of the time. I really know the feeling of wanting life to be simpler. I do but sometimes when we get rid of everything in our life in the name of simplicity we end up with just us. We all need more. Let people be here for you...please ...here is the place you don't have to worry about saying too much or not enough or being mixed up or confused. Here is where you can just be who you are. Take a break if you need but know we are here if needed. ok? place
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Dec 28, 2005, 04:20 AM
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thank you place. that is what I'm saying.
you've met ppl who are there no matter what? you make a lot of sence i want to believe and trust misty |
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#11
Dec 28, 2005, 10:10 PM
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misty...pm me if you would like. I may not be able to answer every day. I am sometimes not on for a few days. BUT you can say anything you like and I will not judge. I understand the need to pull back and then reach out.
I struggle sometimes but here I am if you would like to pm me. ps...the people I was talking about I met right here at PC. Reach out and let somebody take your hand. Not everybody will bite it.
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