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Old Mar 05, 2006, 06:56 PM
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<font color="purple"> (((((((((((Zorah)))))))))) I am so sorry to hear about your loss, I can not even begin to imagine. My thoughst and prayers are with you and yoru family..... ((((((hugs)))))))))) </font>
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I am so sorry!

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Old Mar 05, 2006, 07:15 PM
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<font color="blue">(((((((((((((((((zorah))))))))))))))))))))))) I'm saddened by your loss. How tragic for you. I'm sure anyone here at PC will be willing to chat and help you through this sorrow. My h died
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that is so sad ... My h died i'm so sorry for you. i cannot imagine how horrible it would be to lose the most precious person in your life. i hope you have folks nearby who can comfort you during this time.
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(((((((((((((((Zoah))))))))))))))))) I am so sorry.
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Old Mar 05, 2006, 09:49 PM
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(( Zorah )) I just saw this and I am beyond words to say to you and I know we really cannot say anything that is adequate at a time when you have such a loss....I am so very sad for you
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Old Mar 05, 2006, 10:32 PM
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I hope you are doing ok Zorah. Please remember to be good to yourself.
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Old Mar 05, 2006, 10:57 PM
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Old Mar 05, 2006, 11:52 PM
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{{{{{{{{{{{ZORAH}}}}}}}}}}}} I am so sorry for your loss hon. I am thinking of you and sending you my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I hope you know your being thought and cared about by your friens here at PC. I hope you find comfort in the memories of your husband that you hold dear to your heart.

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Old Mar 06, 2006, 09:56 AM
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Please accept my condolences. Sending strenghthening thoughts your way.

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Old Mar 06, 2006, 10:37 AM
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:-( What a shock. So very sorry. More caring coming your way.
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Old Mar 06, 2006, 10:39 AM
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I am sooooo sorry for your loss. I thought this might be a little bit of an encouragement story. It was read at my grandfather's funeral and it gave my family a little bit of faith for the better
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Old Mar 06, 2006, 10:41 AM
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There was a young woman who had been diagnosed with a
terminal illness and had been given three months to
live. So as she was getting her things "in order,"

She contacted her pastor and had him come to her house
to discuss certain aspects of her final wishes. She
told him which songs she wanted sung at the service,
what scriptures she would like read, and what outfit
she wanted to be buried in.
Everything was in order and the pastor was preparing
to leave when the young woman suddenly remembered
something very important to her.

"There's one more thing," she said excitedly.
"What's that?" the pastor replied.
"This is very important," the young woman continued.
"I want to be buried with a fork in my right hand."
The pastor stood looking at the young woman, not knowing quite what to say.
"That surprises you, doesn't it?" the young woman asked
"Well, to be honest, I'm puzzled by the request," said the pastor.
The young woman explained. "My grandmother once told
me this story, and from there on out, I have always
done so. I have also always tried to pass along its
message to those I love and those who are in need of
encouragement.

In all my years of attending church socials and
potluck dinners, I always remember that when the
dishes of the main course were being cleared, someone
would inevitably lean over and say, 'Keep your fork'
It was my favorite part because I knew that something
better was coming . Like velvety chocolate cake or
deep-dish apple pie. Something wonderful, and with
substance!'

So, I just want people to see me there in
that casket with a fork in my hand and I want them to
wonder "What's with the fork?” Then I want you to tell them
"Keep your fork ... the best is yet to come."
The pastor's eyes welled up with tears of joy
as he hugged the young woman good-bye.
He knew this would be one of the last times he would
see her before her death. But he also knew that the
young woman had a better grasp of heaven than he did.
She had a better grasp of what heaven would be like
than many people twice her age, with twice as much
experience and knowledge. She KNEW that something
better was coming.

At the funeral people were walking by the young
woman's casket and they saw the pretty dress she was
wearing and the fork placed in her right hand. Over
and over, the pastor heard the question "What's with
the fork?" And over and over he smiled.

During his message, the pastor told the people of the
conversation he had with the young woman shortly
before she died. He also told them about the fork and
about what it symbolized to her.

The pastor told the people how he could not stop
thinking about the fork and told them that they
Probably would not be able to stop thinking about it either.
He was right.

So the next time you reach down for your fork, let it
remind you ever so gently, that the best is yet to come.
Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed. They make you
smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear,
they share a word of praise, and they always want to
open their hearts to us.

Show your friends how much you care. Remember to
always be there for them, even when you need them
more. For you never know when it may be their time to
"Keep your fork."

Cherish the time you have, and the memories you share.
Being friends with someone is not an opportunity
but a sweet responsibility.

Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND even if it

means sending back to the person who sent it to you.

And keep your fork.
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You are in my thoughts today Zorah.

I wish I could be there with you.

I am with you in spirit though.

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((((((((((((((((((Zorah))))))))))))))))))) My h died
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Old Mar 06, 2006, 07:46 PM
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Deepest sympathy Zorah.. My h died..gentle hugs if you need them and will except..
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Old Mar 06, 2006, 09:38 PM
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I am sooo sorry for your loss (((((((zorah))))))))
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Old Mar 07, 2006, 03:02 AM
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Just wanted you to know I am thinking of you often each day and I continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers

safe hugs
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