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Old May 03, 2006, 09:16 PM
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TORTURE
REOCCURING
UNCALLED FOR
SELFISH
TOO MUCH
My brother in law, Nancys brother....propositioned me yesterday...He called again today and to invite me over...He wanted to play with me.... I have been switching back and forth.... My sweet littles are so scared. My teens are scared...... My young adults are mad and sad..... They are all screaming at me. His wife is in the hospital.... why on earth would he think I would sleep with I am married to his sister... I am a happy lesbian. I am hurt and shocked by all of this and really hurt. I distrust men tremendously.....
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Old May 03, 2006, 10:25 PM
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((((((((((((((Lilith))))))))))))))))))))
Your right! It is uncalled for! Does your spouse know he is doing this? If not maybe it is time to tell her.
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Old May 03, 2006, 10:53 PM
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Cherybery..... Thank you for careing..... I am just tired of always being on guard... it has been life long.....too long....Lilith
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Old May 03, 2006, 11:08 PM
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Oh phoooeey on the jerk. Can you believe it!! How often do you have to interact with the ahole? I wish you could embarass him publicly. His wife...... what a job she's got, and in the hospital too??????? Creeeps should just evaporate as far as I'm concerned, re-materialize when they decent up.
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Old May 04, 2006, 04:58 AM
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...sending you some powerful chick-power to over-come the jerk-dickhead-scumbag-ahole power....should be comin your way bout NOW.................................................did ya get it or should i send superstrength.
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Old May 04, 2006, 09:13 AM
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hang him by (his.....)
hang him high
let him swing
let him cry!!
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Old May 04, 2006, 12:05 PM
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Hello Stormgirl..... thank you for charging by battery...I am feeling weak ......I hate living in this body.....
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Old May 04, 2006, 09:14 PM
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There is no trust! There is no trust! Lilith There is no trust! There is no trust!

First, what a subhuman dirtbag this guy is? What? Are they defective or something? Why is s** so important? I don't get it. And to have his wife in the hospital!!!! Does she know he does this? Proboblly you're not the only one . . . . man, dissociative - bad man always kept trying - I know exactly what you are going through and I am so sorry. I have to stop - too many flooding memories.

Second, I also know how you feel about not wanting to be in your body. I still haven't claimed mine. I hope we can both find peace.

Please let us know how you make out. I am concerned for you. I don't know if you can, but can the police do anything about him harrassing you?

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Old May 04, 2006, 10:23 PM
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Oh Lillith!!!

((((((((((((( Lillith ))))))))))))))

I am so sorry, hon. Do not answer the phone when he calls. If he comes to your home or work, call 911. Be safe!!!! Better to be safe and worry about the fall out later. Are you ok? Please let me know.

I care.

Love and hugs,

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Old May 04, 2006, 10:40 PM
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Dear SongbirdandDaisy,
He is my my spouse Nancy's elderly brother... I thought he was different... I thought he was someone I could trust. But he turned out to be like everyother scum bag man in my life. I told my older son Earl he wanted to take care of him..... but I told him no. Violence is not right.... I have been in an aweful place for the past couple of days.... if I could only hold on unil my T appointment on Monday.....
Lilith There is no trust!
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Old May 04, 2006, 10:45 PM
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Hi January, Thanks for the note.... Once again I care about how the fallout will effect the rest of the family. I am such a damn fool about so many things...... Just another horrible secret I have to keep. I will just put it in the box with the other host of things.
I will keep in touch with you, and let me say thank you again.
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Old May 04, 2006, 10:48 PM
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Thank you for caring Hillbunny......I will not be interacting as much I just can't.... I can't ..... Nancy is so special.... it would take all of her strenghth to know what he has done she would want to go after him.....
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Old May 04, 2006, 10:52 PM
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(((Lilith)))
Yes, hang on till T appt Monday.

Your Brother In Law is lude and crude.
Don't talk to him anymore.

Please be safe. I know your Littles, Teens and You are scared and feeling uneasy.

Hold on my dear Friend!
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Old May 04, 2006, 11:20 PM
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{{{{{Twisted Soul}}}} I really think I am going to call my T in the am....I don't think I can make it through the weekend..... But I am glad I have you and the rest of the PC family to keep me going.....You are a dear friend...Lilith
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Old May 04, 2006, 11:29 PM
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((((((((((( Lillith )))))))))))

You must take care of you and your Littles. You are all very, very important and special. All of us here love you. Please stay safe and take care of you. Ok? Let me hear from you soon.

Love and hugs,

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Old May 04, 2006, 11:43 PM
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Old May 04, 2006, 11:50 PM
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Thank you Place.... It is a real struggle right now.... But thank you for caring.... Lilith
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Old May 05, 2006, 05:03 AM
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Be safe my friends. You're really important to us. I so understand the whole fallout thing and my usual moto around this is to do what I can live with.

It's funny how the world can change in a split second for the better if the timing is right...everything in it's own time.

Thinking of you and you let me know if you need another recharge........it's my speciality.
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