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Jun 16, 2006, 11:03 AM
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No one was there to help. How do you trust people when there has never been anyone to help you in the past? Everyone has always let you down. Mother abused us, grandparents abused us, stepfather abused us, his friends abused us. The teacher would hit us with a yard stick. People would be nice to you to get you in close so they could hurt you more. Wish people would just be mean so I would understand them. Be nice then they are mean. He used to say the devil was in him and that's why he had to hurt me. He would cry. Then a little while later he would hit you and hurt you inside. He said that he put demons in me. T says no. There aren't demons in me. But I'm confused.
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Jun 16, 2006, 11:11 AM
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((((Montygirl))))
There are no demons in you. that was a lie. I am so sorry there was no one for you and that everyone who was nice then hurt you. It isn't like that all the time now is it?? Keep talking here. We are listening |
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Jun 16, 2006, 12:01 PM
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No, there aren't any demons in you. The problem is not you but what these cruel people instilled in you - lack of trust due to *their* abuse of your trust etc. They are the ones with a problem. Don't let them ruin your life.
There *are* nice people in this world... |
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#4
Jun 16, 2006, 01:00 PM
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(((((((( Monty ))))))))))))
You have no demons, honey. You are the innocent. You are good. The others were evil. What they told you were horrible lies. Please believe your t and keep on working. You are such a nice good person. Hugs, Jan
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Jun 16, 2006, 02:53 PM
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Thank You everyone
I'm trying to trust what T and you guys are saying is true. It's like opening your eyes and taking a step forward out of the dark. T say's he understands. We have been brainwashed to believe all of this and we were so little that we believed what we were told. Hard to change this thinking. But going slow.
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Jun 16, 2006, 03:12 PM
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I learned to do for me what others did not do for me. I do things that make me feel good like taking bubble baths, wrapping up in comforters, buy myself something that helps relax and calm myself, I place my pillows into a v shape andlisten to relaxing music imagining I am laving in some special's arms or that I am holding myself, there are lots of ways you can learn to self nurture yourself. Talk with your therapist and she will help you learn to do for yourself what no one has done for you.
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Jun 16, 2006, 10:49 PM
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(((((((( Monty )))))))))))
Changing our way of thinking is very hard, but I believe in you and I know you can do it. You are a good and loving person. I know that for sure. I would never lie and say you were good if you weren't. keep on keeping on... Hugs, Jan
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Jun 17, 2006, 02:09 AM
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((((((MG)))))
   i am so sorry he said that to you too.. so did my step dad to me..  you are precious inside and out MG.. dont let anyone ever tell you any different!! Kat |
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#9
Jun 17, 2006, 08:59 AM
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((((((((((Monty Girl))))))))))) I am so sorry that they were so cruel to you. I understand how you could be so confused when you were treated like that. You are a wonderful person who was treated very badly. I hope you can soon see that. Know that not everyone is like them. I hope your healing starts soon. Please take care of youreslf.
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Jun 17, 2006, 12:18 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((( Jan )))))))))))))))))))
Like in Finding Nemo Keep on swimmin Keep on swimmin Feel like I need all the strength I can get right now. Just so drained emotionally. Every thought sometimes has to be reviewed for truth. Everything that I thought was true about myself seems to be lies I was feed. Like taking a chalkbroad that I had my beliefs of how the world is writen on it and earsed the whole thing to start new again.
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Jun 17, 2006, 12:37 PM
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((((((((((((((((( Kat )))))))))))))))))))
The same for you. You are a nice person too and deserve to be happy. MG 
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#12
Jun 17, 2006, 12:41 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((((( TY b_bear )))))))))))))))))))))
This is really hard right now.
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