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Old Jul 05, 2006, 11:48 AM
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Well, it finally happened..... with all the stress I have been under here lately with a few people - it brought out my remaining alter last night.

She was scared and frightened and all she could do was cry while my husband comforted me, or her..... he wasn't sure what was going on except that I was afraid that someone was in the bedroom with us and I kept on jumping up to look around and to tuck the covers more tightly under my body, to keep prying hands out.

I feel so drained and in a mental FOG today................. so only time will tell.


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Old Jul 05, 2006, 11:59 AM
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I kinda know what you mean...... stress and other She came out last night - hubby held her / me stuff She came out last night - hubby held her / me online brought "lucy" more "out" than was "normal" for a while........... She came out last night - hubby held her / me

f***** it, it hurts She came out last night - hubby held her / me

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Old Jul 05, 2006, 12:04 PM
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Thanks FUZZY............... and did I say "MY Head Hurts" - some thing awful, real real real bad!

NOW - I wonder what she needs...... I will be patient and loving with HER.


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Old Jul 05, 2006, 01:07 PM
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Hi there. Sorry to hear you have had a rough couple of days, but hope you feel somewhat better now? Sometimes opening the floodgates can be beneficial and/or bring some relief. It is also good your husband comforted you (both). Anyway, hope that you now feel safe(r) now. Do take care..
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Old Jul 05, 2006, 03:29 PM
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sorry rap if one of my alters triggered yours in chat on monday night, i recieved a pm telling me that he swore at you, for that i am sorry.
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Old Jul 05, 2006, 09:09 PM
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((((((((((( Rap ))))))))))))))))
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I wish you both peace. Hang in there.

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Old Jul 06, 2006, 07:55 AM
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She don't like him (trust him).... we wait in bed until she has seen that the light has left from under the door - then we leave our room.
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Old Jul 06, 2006, 08:24 AM
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She Needs to TALK!!! -

Who will listen....... and not judge or give way to arguments over another's feelings?

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Old Jul 06, 2006, 02:19 PM
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Old Jul 06, 2006, 02:27 PM
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Thanks FUZZY..... she has gone for now, but she knows that YOU are here for her when she is ready to talk.... to be heard.

LoVe,
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Old Jul 06, 2006, 03:24 PM
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I know you don't know me but (((((((((((((((MAJOR HUGS))))))))))))))...thats all..Im sure no words would be of much comfort..but I do hope that people will be as kind to you..as you have been to me!
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Old Jul 07, 2006, 11:37 PM
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Thanks to the ones that are willing to listen and not judge or assume.... but all in all I am afraid that she is scared to post how she is really feeling on here, for she has issues with MEN (for they badly abused and hurt her) and she wonders how is she to heal if she is not allowed to speak of such things on here? - things against the males that wounded her soul.

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I'm willing to listen to both you and her!

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(((((((((((((rhapsody))))))))))))))))) I am here ready to listen to anything you may need to say. Please take care.
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