Accepting Partners

So, to those of you who have an SO, I wanted to ask: How does your SO show that s/he is supportive of you and all alters, or are they? What do they do, or say to show that?

Well my SO also has DID (as I call it) so we have little conversation about stuff like that and just have fun :P

Hubby is supportive of some of us, not all. He likes some better than others( it hurts some of their feelings, some dont care.) He is good at playing with some of the kids, buying them toys and dolls and such, playing ball and childrens game with them,etc. he can be a real bonehead at times with the basic things he does not unrstand, but for the most part its ok.

My husbands alters and I all get along. We can talk whenever they want to, and we all know that we're here for each other, and for Jon. Earlier in the relationship, when they weren't so integrated, we even set up "play dates" if they wanted so we could hang out. I especially remember taking Jonny go-carting...I treat them like real people because they ARE real people.