[Jennifer1084]

I have a question, my T told me that she talked to one of my parts and they talked about changing his age, is that possible? He is 3 and scared and she thought that this would help him not be so scared. I am just having a hard time wrapping my mind around this. I'm just so confused. Is it all always confusing?

Jennifer

[Zorah]

((((((((((Jennifer))))))))))

It is always confusing

Hey, it's always great to find other ppl with parts who are cross-gender.

We have a part called Peter, but he is older than yours.

It is possible that your 3 could grow older as you integrate & therefore be more self-protective. Many of our parts have grown in age & understanding

We're here for you

((( Jennifer )))

Slow down if things are too confusing. Make sure you tell T "I cannot wrap my brain around this" so she knows.

I know sometimes we jump into the fire of healing thinking we just need to get through it.

It's ok to step back from the flames and cool off.

[LILITH]

Hello Jennifer,
Two of my adult alters are male..... they are my protecters.DID can be very confusing and tiring at times.... be sure to mention it to you T.....
Safe Hugs!

[Jennifer1084]

Thank you all. I am just so confused and overwhelmed, with working and going to college and then all fo this on top of that, it's all just really getting to me big time. My T did say last week that she feels like we are at a stuck point and I don't know maybe we are. I'm just really confused. Thanks all for caring.

Jennifer

[bipolar_bear]

Maybe talk to your T and let them know what you are feeling? Sometimes things just need to go at their own pace.

[Jennifer1084]

Thanks, I think I will do that, I talked to my other T today and she kind of explained it to me some. I know you're probably wondering why I have two T's. One is an art T and the other is just a regular T. I see them a total of 3 times week. It's really helpful. I am just thinking that maybe I need to just trust them more. I dont' know. I am so scared to tonight. To be honest I have not been so good lately with being good to myself and taking time for myself and the rest of me. So I think things are a little chaotic right now inside. We would like any help we can get.

Jennifer

Will a hug help?

[Jennifer1084]

Thank you Petunia, yes a hug would help. We needed that.

Jennifer

[woundedhearts]

I have had alters that got older. Take your time and you don't have to understand it all. There are things that go on with my alters that I don't understand and they do their own thing. When it is time for me to understand, then I will. Some takes time and then other times it just is like a light bulb goes on. Take time for yourself(s) and be kind to yourself(s).

[Zorah]

wounded hearts