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Apr 15, 2007, 07:20 AM
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My coping skills need a lot of work. I am so far down on the scale now, I don't know if I will be able to rise again. My mother now has Senile Dementia, dealing with her everyday is beyond my capibilities, my children are funn and not so funny..... My spouse lives in left field almost all the time. My insiders are in and out, out and in, Crying, not knowing what to do next. I have not had a lot of time to spend with them in the last couple of days. By last evening I was more than ready to sign myself in the hospital... I had had enouh.
This morning I am feeling like i have a hangover, tired and felling sick.,weak and afraid of what today will bring..... No coping skills left....... at the end.....
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Apr 15, 2007, 08:57 AM
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Apr 15, 2007, 09:25 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((((((Lilith))))))))))))))))))))))))) Is there any way you can take a "mini vacation" all by yourself? Sometimes some time with yourselves can be so good for me. Please take care. I hope things are better today.
BB
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Apr 15, 2007, 09:27 AM
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LILITH, you have been through so much and you are grieving. Take time to regroup and believe that you are strong. My thoughts are with you. (((((((((((( LILITH ))))))))))))))))
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Apr 15, 2007, 02:31 PM
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Hello Reesie, thank you for caring! Thank you for the hug.....
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Apr 15, 2007, 02:33 PM
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Hi BB, I am trying to get some of Nancy's family members to help out... I reconnected with some of them yesterday and the funeral........just a hour or two with out any worries.........Thanks for caring about me....
Altheia
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Apr 15, 2007, 02:40 PM
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Pegasus, Thank you for caring! I see T tomorrow. Maybe she can help me sort through things.... I am feeling like just giving up.... but I have too many lives to think about.
Altheia
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Apr 15, 2007, 03:34 PM
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Se pĺ mig- Jan Johansen (Swedish) När din väg är lĺng och du är trött Men du mĺste ändĺ gĺ, mmm.... Och när skuggorna börjar växa och fĺ liv Och när natten skrämmer sĺ Är jag bredvid dig och jag följer varje steg du tar Och hos dig stannar jag kvar Sĺ se pĺ mig, ĺhĺ..., en hamn i stormen Som en vĺg som fötts att bära dig Ja, se pĺ mig, ĺhĺ..., i ljus och mörker Är jag där och aldrig lämnar jag dig När du stĺr en dag vid ett vägskäl i ditt liv Som ett vilset litet barn Är jag bredvid dig och jag följer varje steg du tar Och hos dig stannar jag kvar Sĺ se pĺ mig, ĺhĺ..., en hamn i stormen Som en vĺg som fötts att bära dig Ja, se pĺ mig, ĺhĺ..., i ljus och mörker Är jag där och aldrig lämnar jag dig Jag gĺr med dig vart du gĺr Och aldrig lämnar jag dig Sĺ se pĺ mig, ĺhĺ..., en hamn i stormen Som en vĺg som fötts att älska dig Ja, se pĺ mig, när ljuset blir till mörker i ditt liv Är jag där och aldrig lämnar jag dig Jag älskar dig sĺ Look at me (Se pĺ mig- my own translation into english) When your road is long and you are tired But yet you have to walk, mmm… And when the shadows begin to grow and come alive And when the night time scares you so I am beside you and I follow every step you take And with you- I stay So look at me, aha… a harbour in the storm As a wave born to carry you Yes, look at me, aha… in light and darkness I am here and I will never let you go When you stand one day by a cross road in your life Like a little lost child I am beside you and I follow every step you take And with you- I stay So look at me, aha… a harbour in the storm As a wave born to carry you Yes, look at me, aha… in light and darkness I am here and I will never let you go I will walk with you where ever you go Never leaving you behind So look at me, aha… a harbour in the storm As a wave born to carry you Yes, look at me, when the light turns into darkness in you life I am there and I will never let you go I love you so |
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Apr 15, 2007, 03:37 PM
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(((((((((((((((((( LILITH ))))))))))))))))))
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Apr 15, 2007, 04:09 PM
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Apr 15, 2007, 04:13 PM
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Apr 16, 2007, 03:57 AM
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Hi Fuzzybear, Thank you for caring....... I can't stay in one place or in one body these days. I am so tired. Be good to yourself.
Altheia
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Apr 16, 2007, 04:04 AM
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Oh my dear sweet Nina, you give me strength everyday to go on. You who have so much on your own plate, take the time to check to see that I am still afloat. When I am the most needy, you know it. And you always come through. You are a true blessing and inspiration to all of us. No one can truely understand the feelings that we share.
Thank you!  Altheia
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Apr 16, 2007, 04:05 AM
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Hi Sister,
Thank you for caring.....Hope to get to know you better. Altheia
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Apr 16, 2007, 06:48 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((((((Lilith)))))))))))))))))))))))))) Thinking about you this morning. Please take care.
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Apr 17, 2007, 07:44 AM
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BB, Thank you....... I am dissociating a lot this morning. Thank you for your continued thoughts for me. Peace to you my friend....Altheia
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Apr 17, 2007, 07:45 AM
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Hello Silver Queen...... thank you! Altheia
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Apr 17, 2007, 07:30 PM
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((((((((( Lilith )))))))))
My Mom has been very sick, too. There are agencies that can send someone to take care of her for you. You can't do all of this alone. I wish you peace and I hope that happiness comes peeking out at you very soon. Hugs, Jan
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Apr 18, 2007, 03:51 PM
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((((((((((((((((((lilith)))))))))))))))))))
This is very difficult. My dad had alzheimers and its not easy at all. Im sorry its got so bad.
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Apr 18, 2007, 08:54 PM
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Hi Jan, my mothe is in a Nursing Home... but I am very close to my mother. I have her here at the house at least on weekend every month. I thank you for your caring.
Hugs! Altheia
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Apr 18, 2007, 08:57 PM
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Hello All The Girls..... My mom is in a Nursing Home.... but I still care for her on a day to day basis. The doctor asked me if I wanted to put Nancy in a nursing home as well.... I told him no, she belongs home with me. Thanks for caring!
Altheia
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Apr 24, 2007, 03:43 AM
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((((((((((Altheia))))))))))
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Apr 27, 2007, 12:26 PM
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((( Lilith )))
How are you holding up? Thinking of you.
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