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Old Apr 09, 2007, 09:54 AM
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Monty asked me to post this for her so everyone would know what's up with her.
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I'm home this week-end to get some stuff moved into the new house. Shawn is very sick and has been in the hospital on a feeding tube. He's going to have another surgery on monday to remove scar tissue and to have a perment bag put on. I'm taking a month off from work so I can stay with him and take care of him. Since Erin left and filed for divorce she won't even return his calls. Tanya moved to Wisconsin and can't afford to take off to care for him. My mom is going to do week-ends and I'm going to do the week days. He's so far down phycially and emotionally right now we are worried about him going through the surgery.

I'll try and stop by next week-end if I have the internet and let you all know how things are going. With the move I don't know if the cable will be hooked up or not by next week-end.

I just wanted everyone to know I was OK and just taking care of family things right now. I am having fun taking care of Shawn's doggy Gracie. Shawn's not able to walk her so she's been excited going for walks with me. Maybe I'll lose a few pounds?
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Old Apr 09, 2007, 01:03 PM
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MANY thoughts and meditations are going out to you and your baby brother right now.

I'm so sorry all this is happening.

I wish I could be the friend I would like to be and haven't been because so much is going on here. I'm truly sorry for that.

I hope to talk soon.

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Old Apr 16, 2007, 10:42 AM
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Hi everyone. Thank You all for the hugs and well wishes. Shawn did better then we all thought with the surgery. He had a blockage that was removed and they removed scar tissue. He didn't have to have a bag put back on. They believe that the blockage was his biggest problem and now it's cleared he'll recover quick. He was sent home saturday. He spent most of his time in the hospital watching the food network and reading cooking books.

I'm still moving into my new house. I've gotten most of my kitchen stuff moved in. It's been slow. I slept till noon yesterday so didn't have much time to get much of anything done. I brought the cats over to the new house again last night. 2 of them are getting used to the new digs, but Snoopy has issues with it still. She does OK if I just hold her, but as soon as I put her down she goes to meowing. Hoping if I just keep taking them over there for short periods of time they will be used to it when we finually get totally moved in. We wanted to be in this week-end but with Shawn and then the rain it didn't happen. I'll see you all soon. I'm heading out now. It's a 3 hour drive back to Shawn's.
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