[BelleCat]

I have an "alter" that has some serious problems. I can go about that a different post, but I REALLY need advice right now, because my alter just broke up with my boyfriend.

I found out when I was messing around on the internet when I discovered a chat that "I" had with my friend.

"I" was telling him that "I" had written a really long, hand written note saying that "I" was devastated by my boyfriend's behavior (he had been acting a tad aloof lately - but we worked it out), and that "I" wanted to just be friends.

But it wasn't JUST that "I" said those things. "I" had to say those things in the WORST way EVER. "I" said things like: "I'm not mad at you. My feelings are hurt, but whatever, I'll get over it."

I have frantically messaged the ex now, I guess, trying to fix the situation. I told him that if I wanted to break up, I would tell him in person, and any written note should be ignored.

He knows about my Dissociative Disorder, but I don't know how he's gonna take this.

Has anybody else been through this before?

[CANDC]

There are other DID people that have alters that burst forth onto the scene and cause trouble. I am only starting to learn how these work.

Sounds like there are mixed feelings within you. Sometimes an honest note how stressed and not feeling well and can we just let this settle down and talk more later. Maybe you have already done this.

Getting sleep can help in my case. try sleeping on this one. If he is an empathetic person he can laugh at your alters. If he is steaming mad, he may not have the disposition to be in a relationship with a person with alters.

I have break up threats every so often and I wait until the wind changes.

Say babe, if he "understands" your condition, he shouldn't have a problem with it. Yall just need to talk. He's a gem it sounds like to be there with your condition. I'm pretty sure he'll get it. Good luck!