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I have been struggling with wanting to move out of state or stay. I am trying to decide if I want to move to get away from the snow or if I want to move to get away from feeling. No matter how many times I think I have the answer I realize I really don't. It might not sound too important but right now it is weighing heavily on my mind. I can't really talk to anyone about it. Only one person knows who I fell in love with and she is not around. And even if she was I am not certain she could help. Right now I am just very sad. I need to move on but it still hurts. I don't know what to do with the hurt. How long is it supposed to hurt.
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Clairitytoo,
Heartbreak lasts for different amounts of time depending on the person and the situation. Sometimes it dissipates quicker than we expect, but other times it just seems to linger. I find with MI/DID a couple of scenarios play out. One scenario is I switch personalities and am over someone within a blink of an eye. Other times I repress the hurt so much that I believe I'm over it, only to switch an find myself crying all over again. Big decisions are the hardest for me because I may feel very strongly about something one minute, only to change my mind about it the next minute. I wish I had the right answer, but unfortunately I dont. Hopefully someone else on this forum has some good advice to give you cause I could use some myself! Take comfort that whatever is meant to be will happen no matter which decision you make. Good luck!
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I really wish I could move far far far away from all this hell of a town. But hey, it's springtime here so let's enjoy it
![]() As for what you're saying: I think you want to move away... from the feeling... but you sort of project that feeling into the snow.... or maybe i've read too much Freud ![]() Allie and/or Lana
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i've never much liked winter but i never so entirely loathed it until this winter because my everything was horrible and i was a mess
was the winter worse because i was? or was i worse because of the winter? either way spring's here and i never wanna do another winter again > ![]() |
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