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Apr 02, 2015 at 02:49 PM
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I've decided, I'm leaving.
I don't want to. But the anti Rebecca has beat me down. I doubt I will be able to come back from the damage she has done. She has thrown so much hate at her mother and I. I won't be able let it go. I hope for her sake, she means it. And does not have to regret everything. Sent from my iPod touch using Tapatalk |
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Apr 03, 2015 at 04:22 AM
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Hope did your day at work go? For the moment take each day as you go. Each of us need to evaluate our relationships from time to time. Wishing you peace and joy.
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Apr 03, 2015 at 12:07 PM
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It was ok. I just got my head down. I got lectured because of my weight loss. But it was not as weird as I thought it would be. A little anxiety, but I powered through it. I've completely blocked Rebecca from contacting me, at least until she is better. She's still trying to hurt me. But, I am note biting. I have my dr again on the 8th, at the same hospital where Rebecca is, that's panicking me a lot, I don't want bump into her. Sent from my iPod touch using Tapatalk |
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Apr 03, 2015 at 02:22 PM
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Apr 04, 2015 at 01:01 AM
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Glad you went to work and has some time to yourself.
Can you take some-one with you when you have to see your doc and they can be a buffer if needed? Yes, no biting - you will only hurt your own mouth. |
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Apr 04, 2015 at 06:21 AM
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So, we are DEFINITELY done!
I got a voice message from a patient at the hospital, it was meant for her. Not going into detail. But there is no way of getting back our old life. I need to get my own place. But have to stay here until I get one  Sent from my iPod touch using Tapatalk |
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Apr 04, 2015 at 07:40 AM
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Apr 04, 2015 at 07:52 AM
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I tried to bring her things, restricted my access.
Wouldn't let me talk to the ward. But there is no going back after this voice message. He was graphic in the things they tried. The message Sent from my iPod touch using Tapatalk |
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Apr 04, 2015 at 07:52 AM
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Was not meant for me
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Apr 04, 2015 at 01:01 PM
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Sorry Stephen, I dont know your details. Probably get on with your life like you said. Good luck with everything. Nothing happens overnight. One day at a time. My daughter is sleeping took her to another blood test for endocrine to have everything checked out. She has PCOS trying to get that leveled out. Have you had a Physical with everything checked out endocrine system also? keep talking to people here also. They have good advice. My daughter has lost a lot of weight. Giving her protein shakes. Slowly back on her feet. good luck to you
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Apr 04, 2015 at 01:20 PM
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I'm devastated!!
I'm broken!! I just broke down on the phone to her mum. I can't sleep in this house. I'm going to end up in hospital I want my rebecca back, but that's all ruined now. And she doesn't even know what she's doing to me. I hate this evil person she is. She is going to be horrified when she is better, and won't even know why I left. It's not even her fault! Sent from my iPod touch using Tapatalk |
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Apr 05, 2015 at 10:20 AM
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Had an unbroken sleep last night. 13 hours!!
Woke up, started doing the housework. Playing some xbox I disconnected the house phone. Blocked my Facebook. Dealing positive  Sent from my iPod touch using Tapatalk |
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Apr 06, 2015 at 08:20 AM
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I'm glad you got some good sleep. Staying positive sounds like a good way to go. Hope you can find a place to be.
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Apr 06, 2015 at 11:56 AM
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An awesome day at work!
Got some advice from my OT, For getting my own house quicker. Had no abusive messages. Got the hospital on Wednesday, still anxious about bumping into Rebecca. But apart from that. I feel good Sent from my iPod touch using Tapatalk |
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Apr 07, 2015 at 01:32 AM
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Excellent news that you are having a good day. Getting your own place to stay would be great and give you more stability and a secure base. Huzzar.
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Apr 07, 2015 at 03:04 AM
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In also thinking, if she changes her mind when she is well, I might give try taking things slowly.
At the end of the day, it's not her fault. And if all the horrible stuff she has done is all made up, I have to give Rebecca and I another try. But as for now, that person in hospital, is not my girlfriend and I have to make plans for my future. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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Apr 07, 2015 at 01:37 PM
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Now she's taken to harassing my friends.
I have told them to ignore her, or block her. Luckily, they know me better, and are not believing what she's saying. She's not making it easy for me (=)) Had quite a rough day, worrying about her. But, she has helped put my mind at ease. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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Apr 08, 2015 at 12:59 PM
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AWESOME DAY!!
Had a bit of a grumpy tantrum when my alarm went off for work. But was in a good mood all day. I was a bit worried about my appointment, but my dr is ill, so it got cancelled. But, apart from that, very good day  Sent from my iPod touch using Tapatalk |
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Apr 10, 2015 at 01:59 PM
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Stressful couple of days.
She's getting a weekend pass, to spend time with our son. She's staying at her mums, (house arrest style) Our dr has said we need to stay away from each other. That's good! But she'll he staying right next door! Not good! My dr had said if I need to I can go to the hospital. But I want to avoid that, at all costs!! Fighting the urge to remove digits. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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Apr 10, 2015 at 09:46 PM
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Hey sweety, follow the doctor rules to survive. He's been dealing with the situation so he knows. Give her space to come back. Best of luck!
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