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Hey yall, I was called out elsewhere over using words like "sweety" "hun" "honey" "babe" etc.
It's so like how I talk, but come to find out, it bothers people. Does anyone here find it offensive? I don't want to offend anyone and I'll stop saying it, takes a little getting used to, but I think I can. |
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Doesn't bother us. IB-Lacy
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Thanks sweets, but to others it can be so like a major trigger.
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here in my location its a bit creepy for some people to hear because its actually a grooming technique that pedophiles use with children they are trying to chum up to and sometimes domestic violence people use in abundance as a way of showing the public everything is fine while intimidating their victim who must also go along with these endearments or face t heir abusers wrath. my suggestion talk with your treatment provider. they can help you balance when and where it can be ok for you to shower endearments on people in your life. |
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Causes no concern to any of us either
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i'm fine with it
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The very first time you used an endearment with me (us?), I'll admit, it was a little uncomfortable. Then, iIgot to know you, and realised it's part of the way you communicate.
Short version: I'm fine with it. I don't hear any arguments. So, I think the others are fine with it, too. |
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I've been working on it, but I do slip up every now and then. It's a hard thing to do to change a person's ways. I can feel the restraint, but it's all good. ![]() |
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Omg, this is so hard.
"You can take the girl out of the South, but you can't take the South out of a girl!" Lol |
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