possable mpd

I don't know if my husband may have mpd or not. There has been a few times within this year that my husband would go through this" personality change". It starts when i put to much stress on him when we argue. Its like one minute he's himself then the next out of the blue he goes into this daze. Then his personality changes to really sweet or really aggressive. His personality would change like 2 of three times. When he is coming out of it, its like he goes through a seizure...well kinda. He would have no memory of anything that happened except for maybe when the argument first started. He thought he was sleeping. Could anyone tell me if this could be the onset of mpd or something else????. There also has been times when he tried to rape me or hurt me lol. Its really weird. I have ptsd so I worry a little.

I am sorry you are going thru this in your relationship, otherwise only a professional can diagnose DID. The part of your post that causes me concern is the need for you to keep yourself safe, no matter what the diagnosis may be, violence is not something that someone should have to endure, so I hope you will seek support and guidance where ever you live too. Please take care of yourself and be safe..and Welcome to PC..

Eva..

Its not like it happens all the time so i don't really worry about it to much. I am curious and woundering if thats what he might have.

DID is not something to be taken lightly. It's difficult to live with and comes from an underlying issue. I agree, only a professional can make such a diagnosis. Is it possible to get him to go? And violence - unacceptable, even once. Consider this: should all first time offenders be "let off the hook" because it just happened once?

Good Luck, SBD

Even if he has been violent with you a little, you need to take protective measures if possible. It will help both you AND him. Its not bad to get help, it could be developmental for you both i think.

i know but he won't go. I was talking to him the other day and his uncle has schizophrenia... but he's also and alcoholic. So i don't know if there might be a connection there eather. He says he don't hear voices or anything. but he also hates the doctor lol.