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does anyone think these pictures in my signature looks like masculinity battling the feminine side?
not sure what i was going for with that, think im gonna change it shortly
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It kind of looks like there's some form of abuse going on within the gif. Just from our perspective. (Sorry)
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also though pics and graphics are fine they dont usually tell the whole story and can be misleading. on a website one time someone posted a pic of a little girl head down I thought wow thats one depressed person. when i posted based on the pic I discovered the person was praying, not depressed. I have learned that no matter what the pic its open to interpretation, the person may be posting a pic to me that looks like they are angry but in the end they might just be posting a pic because they happen to like that saying or that pic or are or are not what the pic is saying. many people forget to change their signatures and pics and then oh gosh thats not what I meant. my point pics can lead into mis representations where as if Im reading the words I have a better chance of understanding where that person is at and why. also sometimes graphics in a post can be triggering for others.. so I dont bother looking at the pics and I dont post pics, i rely more on the actual posts. |
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thanks...
do you enjoy using the older computers more? im pretty good at computers.. can build one pretty decent for cheap.. but i understand about pictures misrepresenting things... also being triggering... thats why i changed it... but i was looking at it and it just perplexed me because it seemed like i was trying to say something with it.. of course i dont know what, dont really remember setting them.. it just made me feel strange as they made me feel like im fighting a losing battle with myself... in the one picture it seemed like i was trying to say here i am and grabbing ahold of the situation but it bursts through the door and im on the other side and the situation is taking control of me... and the other one just made me feel like i was afraid and confused by something that shouldnt be... but like the one i changed it to, i suppose the hatters gonna hat... it wasn't an important question, not really sure why i posted it because its not that important... but i appreciate you guys words... posting kind of helps a little, i have been trying to journal too but im getting confused with what i journaled and what i posted...
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We often find your pictures triggering which is why we don't often respond to your threads and posts. Sometimes its hard to look.
Like that eye pic is hard for us but we know its there now and can choose not to look at it. But sometimes we have to go past. |
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im sorrys, i should of known... but inside of me is dark so sometimes i dont think some things are bad.. but i understand, im just wondering what kind of things are acceptable, im going to try to find some better ones.. gimme a few minutes and i will fix it up
![]() thanks for letting me know.. dunno why i didnt already ![]() @amanda i know what you mean, my pc isn't top of the line either because im just plum poor hehe ![]() but its a nice one and i spent i think 200$ building it... 3.4ghz dual core cpu, 8gb ram 750gb hardrive 1024 mb video card (Dx10) ![]() computers are fun... they dont yell at you and are happy when you fix them up...
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love you all.. sorry if i seem like a scary person...
im not, im just a scared person... i'll try to not let myself use triggering photos like that from now on, i just hope that i dont forget ![]()
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You actually don't seem scary in the slightest, ES.
![]() People get triggered by a whole lot of stuff and - really - the only person who is responsible for managing their triggeredness and exposure to triggers is themselves. And, because nobody has any idea what other peoples triggers are (and they literally could be ANYTHING!) it is pretty much impossible to never do anything that triggers other people. All you can do - and all you should do - is you. Just do you. |
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![]() sometimes i feel like a horrible person...
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