[beyes2018]

Does anyone have a part that is very protective and that probably could become aggressive if loved ones were threatened? Let me say I am not a violent person. I have noticed since I am coming to terms with this, I have a part that is sarcastic, abrupt, doesn't candy coat things. Tonight she came out. My wife had to ask me to be quiet. We took the kids to dinner at a place that has a play ground where they can run while we relax and eat. There were some older boys playing maybe between 8 and 10 years of age. Our grandson who is autistic is 4. He makes a lot of strange noises and doesn't care to play with kids other than his sister and a few other family members. These boys started making fun of him and took his toy from him and threw it over the fence. My left eye started twitching like it does when I feel a shift. She came forward. Was loud enough for their parents to hear that they need to teach their children how to be kind and not bullies especially when someone is different. Needless to say the parents took their children and left. I am VERY protective over my loved ones especially our grandson. I am having a hard time trying to keep her quiet in my head now. She is so loud.

[Amyjay]

Wow. She may be loud but is so important. How wonderful to be able to stand up for those who can not stand up for themselves. If only every child had someone like that, someone who would fearlessly protect them no matter what!

Yes, the Angry One is triggered by injustices....he is mean and loud like dynamite and very protective for ourselves and son. When he presents....it’s like being pushed to the back of my head and all I can do is but watch until he’s had his say. Since it’s so unlike me....I am mortified and helpless till he’s finished. When he goes back in...I’m in a bit of a daze often wondering did that just happen...the epiotime of out of control.

So trying to stay calm and averting triggers is very important in evoking this part...it has gotten us into more trouble then I can remember.

[YoucancallmeFlower]

OMG
Trying to stay away to make better use of my time (packing to move)
but could not resist this.

(Hi AC2!)

Yeah. Baddest b**** on the planet. Scares me to death. Seen her clear a grocery store or a bank or a party in under a minute. Then the curtain
comes down. Was told she she said to a bank teller, "Cash the check,
b****, or I'm coming over the counter." They cashed the check.
I'm only 5'2", but they tell me the look in her eyes is so crazy it freaks
people out.
I don't know her name--just call her Mean Girl. She is the keeper of all
the rage and pain. She also hates cruelty and injustice and rudeness
sets her off big time.
I congratulate you for having so much control. If it had been me /her,
we would have been out there in the playground and it would not have
ended well.
If she were only protective of me, it would be one thing. But her rage
often turns on me. She has done things to me so terrible I can't relate
them here. And she has done things to others that make it a miracle
I am not dead or in prison.
No matter how unfair it is, we always have to take the fallout. I've lost
friends, lovers, even a husband. Because what can you say? Ah, it wasn't really me?