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May 06, 2009, 03:14 PM
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saw my ex(and first) boyfriend today. he gave me his # and told me to call him.
he was the first person who ever told me he loved me, and the first person I ever told about my MPD and he didnt believe me. I havent seen him for two years. what should I tell him? i want to be friends again.. confused ~jenete |
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May 06, 2009, 03:32 PM
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Sorry I can't help you but I wanted to give you this hug anyways
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May 06, 2009, 03:52 PM
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i think you should think about this for a while before making a decision. Ask yourself what you hope to get out of it. If you could have anything you wanted, what would you hope for? That might help you see clearly whether you have any unrealistic expectations and also help you see possible outcomes and how you might feel about them so you can decide if it's worth the risk.
i dunno if that made sense (lol) but i guess i'm trying to say do what you want but just be sure your eyes are wide open before you do it. Whatever you decide and whatever happens we'll be here for you. |
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May 06, 2009, 04:12 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((((((((JeNete)))))))))))))))))))))))))))) like meso said, i would think long an hard b4 goin back with this man...he after all did NOT believe u the first time...what makes u think he will believe u now? an too...u r different than u were then...an a lot has changed in u...i hope that u will do all the pros an cons b4 u do anything...cuz sounds like hes on the rebound an just lookin for somethin that isnt there...please b careful... abbi
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May 06, 2009, 04:48 PM
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I agree withj Meso and Jewels - what has changed that he would be accepting now? People change, yes, but how will you know? And do you really be able to handle it if ypou discover that he hasn't changed. I'm sorry that you have landed into this difficult situation. I really hope it has a good outcome.
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May 06, 2009, 05:24 PM
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well, thankyou everyone. first of all.
mostly I just wanted to catch up with him, and reconcile anything ive felt i needed to. we were together very briefly, but my emotional issues stopped all that might have been. also even if he wanted to date again, i wouldnt try anyway because it would never work out in a thousand years. and im already in love with someone and i dont want anyone but her. i guess the one thing i want is for him to know i would never lie to him. we were only 15 when i told him..so |
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