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Old Jul 05, 2010, 01:47 PM
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I miss my husband so much. This last episode of Bipolar he left home and he doesn't want to come back. I know it's his illness but I just can't get it out of my head how he could just stop loving me and leave when an hour before it happened he was telling me loved me and days before he was saying if I ever left him he would be alone... I am okay one minute then the next I feel like crying, I feel sorry for myself, I can't get anyone to help me help him, I'm angry... 4 years of marriage and he just leaves for no reason.

I would give anything to help him and have him back home, anything... I tried praying, I tried begging him, I tried getting the law involved, and nothing works. I feel like I am losing my mind and like part of me is dying.

I cannot stop going over everything that happened in my head constantly, it's driving me slowly insane. I just want him home.

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Old Jul 05, 2010, 02:26 PM
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I'm really sorry. Really, really sorry.
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Old Jul 16, 2010, 01:48 AM
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Lisa,

Let him go, he doesn't want to return you can't make him. You can't make him love you if he doesn't want to any more.

Just let it go and get to a therapist, you really need one,

Rhiannon
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Peace, the deep imperturbable peace is right there within you, quieten the mind and slow the heart and breathe...breathe in the perfume of the peace rose and allow it to spread throughout your mind body and senses...it can only benefit you and those you care about...I care about you
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Old Jul 16, 2010, 02:10 AM
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Aww Lisa, Im so sorry, Dont give up , its the illness thats doing it, hewill need you when he comes home.
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Old Jul 19, 2010, 12:58 AM
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How are things going Lisa? Sorry I was harsh on you earlier..I honestly didn't mean to be..sometimes I just don't know where some stuff comes from inside of me and I don't remember writing that...

Keep us up to date so we can support you as best possible,

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