 |
| FAQ/Help |
| Calendar |
| Search |
|
#1
Jun 09, 2011, 10:12 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
I have made my decision. After 13 years together, and eight years of marriage, I feel that there is just nothing left for me to salvage. There is nothing left for me to want to salvage. I am tired. I can't do this anymore, and I am unhappy. I am tired of pretending. I cannot pretend to be happy, just so that he is happy. There are some sacrifices I am just not willing to make. I am honestly scared to death. I have wanted to leave for a long time, I pushed him away. I fight what he calls love and affection. He's hurt me. I've hurt him. I can finally admit to myself the truth--I do not love him anymore; I am not sure if I ever loved him. I don't know why I was afraid to say I was unhappy here; I do not know why I am afraid to leave. I sat tonight, alone with my thoughts, when I came up with this decision. I cried. I cried for him, not for me, but for him. I can't take care of him anymore. I have to take care of me.
__________________
"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." — Marilyn Monroe |
|
#2
Jun 09, 2011, 11:06 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Quote:
|
|
#3
Jul 09, 2011, 11:56 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
my wife left me 2 weeks ago. And is saying d exactly same thing like u do.
" feel that there is just nothing left for me to salvage. There is nothing left for me to want to salvage. I am tired. I can't do this anymore, and I am unhappy. I am tired of pretending. I cannot pretend to be happy, just so that he is happy. There are some sacrifices I am just not willing to make. I am honestly scared to death. I have wanted to leave for a long time, I pushed him away. I fight what he calls love and affection. He's hurt me. I've hurt him. I can finally admit to myself the truth--I do not love him anymore; ..." I know myself at mistake. I am willing to be more patient n understanding now. I know how much it hurts n disappointed her. She said proof it to her for d last time tat I love by respect her decision to leave me. But is it true tat is nothing I can do but only respect her decision to let her go? |
|
#4
Jul 16, 2011, 01:37 AM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Sorry! so much
|
| Reply |
This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
|
My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.
Linear Mode
