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Old May 30, 2011, 11:59 PM
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Honestly, my husband and best friend?

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Old May 31, 2011, 05:58 AM
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i know. I read your last post. Its disgusting
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Old May 31, 2011, 05:59 AM
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(i mean they are disgusting)
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Old Jun 03, 2011, 12:55 PM
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(((coastalgirl0279)))

I am sorry to hear about the connection between your hub and best friend. Unfortunately, not a very unusual occurrance. It isn't your fault... you can assure yourself of that.

The fault lies with your hub and your friend. Both have some responsibilty in the relationship.

What you should do depends on where you are now. How you feel. When things occurred, how you found out, current relationship standings, etc. I don't think that I can generalize. It's a personal decision.

You're in my thoughts ~ best wishes to you!
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Old Jun 09, 2011, 10:15 PM
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Such is life. Thanks for your thoughts. I'd like to believe everything happens for a reason. I just wish I knew what the reason was.

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(((coastalgirl0279)))

I am sorry to hear about the connection between your hub and best friend. Unfortunately, not a very unusual occurrance. It isn't your fault... you can assure yourself of that.

The fault lies with your hub and your friend. Both have some responsibilty in the relationship.

What you should do depends on where you are now. How you feel. When things occurred, how you found out, current relationship standings, etc. I don't think that I can generalize. It's a personal decision.

You're in my thoughts ~ best wishes to you!
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Old Jun 09, 2011, 11:40 PM
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Wow, I am sorry to hear that. I know first hand the pain of a partners affair. You will make it through this and be better for it.
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Old Jun 10, 2011, 08:16 PM
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Honestly, my husband and best friend?
they are scumbags well suited to each other , thank your lucky stars this happened and u saw their true colors hence freeing u up to meet someone worthy of u in the future x
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Old Jul 29, 2011, 12:04 AM
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Honestly, my husband and best friend?
Went through a similar thing. My husband and best friend were having an "emotional affair" I'm trying to forgive and heal and at the same time help him through his depression! Any ideas and advice??

Jen
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Old Jul 31, 2011, 02:39 AM
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I think that is a terrible thing and can't imagine how anyone could think it is right to do that!
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Old Aug 07, 2011, 09:20 AM
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i think as my x did , he was intending to know me better that he kept telling me .
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