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Old Nov 21, 2012, 12:06 PM
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Old Nov 21, 2012, 01:25 PM
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I've been away from PC for some time and remember you posting in June or thereabouts. What's the current status? Did you file first. Have you managed any control over the situation or do you feel like you are being manipulated at this point?
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Old Nov 21, 2012, 04:00 PM
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I filed, and things are still dragging on and on and on.......

She wants a divorce, that isn't an issue, but she doesn't want half my stuff she wants EVERYTHING and then a bit more.

So instead of working things out with a mediator we are going the long painful route. She is insisting on 100% placement of our daughter with her (mostly for more $) and is making up all sorts of wild BS. So as part of this I get to have a Psych Evaluation (she has to have one too), I'm not worried about that, I will come out looking better than she will. The thing I do worry about is all the BS she is feeding our daughter non stop.
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Old Jun 28, 2013, 09:34 PM
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Hey Mike, wanted to see how things are going for you. It's been some time now. I've not been on PC as I have been busy with settlement which I believe has officially ended. I'm not even sure of that because there is active restraining order. Untill that expires I think my case remains open.
I have nothing to say that will encourage you. I can advise you on the pit falls, the set ups, and the generally low tactics of the opposition and of the court itself if needed.
what's your current status if you will share....are you getting the advice of an attorney or actual representation? If you don't have one who is actively fighting for you in court, get one. Please. Tom
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Old Jun 29, 2013, 03:29 AM
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Dear Mike ~ Forgive me as I can't remember how old your daughter is, but keep the faith because children are MUCH smarter than we give them credit for. Even if she IS handing your daughter a lot of bull, chances are your daughter knows it. Since you've been a GOOD father to her, she's going to KNOW that and that's going to STAY with her, regardless of what wifey tells her. She will discard what "mommy dearest" tells her because she'll know it's not true! Children keep only what they know to be TRUE. They will NOT accept any negative things they know are NOT true. So you don't have to worry about that Mike. Please believe me!!!

God bless you Mike, and I pray the court will throw your wife's demands out!!! She sure doesn't deserve all she's asking. Take care! Hugs, Lee
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