finally

after postponing my divorce it is finally done. as of yesterday morning I became a single woman. yes he is still in the house for right now because he is not doing well physically. not sure yet when this will change

I hope that your ex gets well soon so that you can begin your new life. It's hard to move on when the person you are moving on from is still in the house. Kudos to you for letting him stay while he recovers.

you got that right hon. thanks for your suppor!

It was hard living in the house before, I can't imagine how difficult it must be after.....doesn't he have family that he can go live with?

My H was the kind of person that unless I physically kicked him out, he wasn't able to leave because he couldn't figure out what to do.....can't handle change of routine. I didn't know he had that problem at the time..only have become aware of it over the last few months of research & looking back at his behaviors.

Always when I wanted to get a divorce before he always said HE wasn't going to leave the house. So when I finally left the house & left it to him, he almost lost it to foreclosure because he couldn't deal with handling the loan modification on his own. Some guys are AFRAID to be on their own even though they would NEVER admit it.