Feeling alone

@sadmanagain
I was in a toxic relationship for a while that landed me in Psych ward twice... She would date with me about 3 weeks to a month then go with her ex-husband a few days, then get back with me... It was really bad...
I hope you figure things out...
Never ever give up!

be good to yourself!

Love and Light.

Heya all checking in.

So it's over, the divorce is finalized. I am processing a lot right now. We both also signed a no appeal clause. I bought myself another house and am all moved in. Ill be unpacking for a while.

The whole thing kills me and yet at the same time this has helped me to realize that much of what was going on was not ok. I don't wish to throw any mud so I'm going to say that it's sad this went the way it did.

I tried and did everything I could, Most of her struggles have nothing to do with me and I can not fix them. It's sad but I have to start thinking about me now, so that is what I will try to do now.

It's going to be a long road BUT I think but my situation could be a lot worse. I got a house near my job, I know many folks in divorce are not so lucky. So I count my blessings. One day at a time.

Sometimes the best way to love someone is to let go because the person is just not capable of having a normal relationship. From what you shared your wife got so badly triggered that she began suffering confusing and debilitating ptsd symptoms.

I hope your wife gets the right help and realizes that consuming alcohol will only make things worse.