our host is loosing weight

help uz please what do we do?

do you hav a t? could you hav t talk to her for you? i dont know much about DID, but i do know about eating disorders... sry :/ but please try to eat. if a meal is too much, try little things... like a smoothie. or a piece of fruit. or some cheese...

no t and she refuses to eat now

she stopped eating completely

Protein shake? At least help yourself out with some daily vitamins. What is it that is causing her to quit eating? Body image issues? Depression/Anxiety? Nauseous? Please find a T or some other way to work out the core of this issue.

she would be mad if we took vitamins she fears content in those an to her it would feel like giving into her own body which is a crime and also she decided it cause of body image issues
and depression and anxiety an discust with food etc
we r trying to find a t for her

I know that stress always makes my eating feel impossible also....it some of this have to do with the stress over the release form that has been such a worry?

When I get upset over things, eating's the first thing that goes because it's the only thing I have control over.......I managed to make it through on a 1/2 grilled cheese sandwich for a long time, but still ended up in the hospital having to have a central line & IV nutrition......I am sure she doesn't want to end up in that situation....eating a little is so much better than that......sending all my love & care to all of you

yea part of it .n thanks for your kindness and no she dont want to be in hospital in that way

our hosts body is trying to make us eat for her but she be very mad ifwe do what do we do

her body begging for food

what is keeping you from listening to your host? if you know that she is begging for food...?

if we eat for her we r scared of her anger

help protect us alts we eating for her omg we scared whst she will do to us

She can't do anything to you that she doesn't do to herself because you alts & her are the same body......that's just the facts of DID

my god i asked a weightloss question how to loose 30-40 pounds fast and how to not overeat an one person called me fat and the two others gave me tips to loose weight .i even put im medically underweight

If that was online....how would they really know what your REAL condition was????? If those people really saw you, they would know you are underweight & wouldn't have said something like that.

Freedom-

From reading your posts it sounds as if you need more support in real-life than anything an Internet board can provide you.

freedom, how are things going for you? has the situation gotten any better? does your host get like this a lot during the holidays? i wish i had some magical advice to give you, but i don't really know enough to do that. just please keep us posted, ok?

shes doin somewhat better , she only eats one meal a day an going through diet pill addiction recovery an withdrwal

she had been on Zantrex -3 diet pill for 4 days an took some last night an got sick she threw up twice and got horrible headache also was heavily sedated like she could not even tell you who people she knows were or what time or date it was she was that out of it an now shes has got to go cold turkey per her docs nurse so she struggling any ideas?
she ate today an got naused
her body was getting used to two guess three was her limit

shes randomly loosing weight again bout 2/3 pounds a week and sometimes it comes back sometimes not but shes very thin help how can we get her to gain a lil bit of weight and eat more then she has been ?????????????
at one she lost her hunger cues /fullness and her body annoys us with constant request to get her to eat or body threaten es it will binge sigghhh