[razeljenny]

Are you in relationships and have an eating disorder that makes it challenging to communicate about your food needs? I especially wanted to hear about romances that you are in and how do you talk to people you really care about about your food preferences which could be not normal to most people. I have sensitivieties to a bunch of things so that limits what I feel comfortable with eating especially when a food is handed to me on a plate, etc. I do feed myself, but i am not your "normal" type.

[dcs_no1_fan]

Im married with anorexia

i dont talk 2 any 1 about my food preferences my husband finds it hard 2 understand that i think im fat when every1 says im not so i just find it easyer not 2 talk about it at all

[cropp89]

My boyfriend doesn't know about my problem, but he always asks me why I don't eat and I say I am not feeling good. I t hurts not to tell him though cause I have been taking everything out on him, but I have no one to talk to about it.

[veritymoon]

my partner knows i have issues with food and confidence but has no idea just how bad it sometimes is or what i get up to when hes not around

[razeljenny]

I know. We are like "bad putty cats" aren't we?

[razeljenny]

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My boyfriend doesn't know about my problem, but he always asks me why I don't eat and I say I am not feeling good. I t hurts not to tell him though cause I have been taking everything out on him, but I have no one to talk to about it.

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I feel that way. I love the days that go sweetly with the food "thing" but miss them because sad to say, "there aren't enough of them." Boyfriend hates my not wanting to eat this and that and I dispise arguing but it just dosen't "ever" stop being misunderstood, by him. Man I am mad (like, he wants me to eat icecream and pizza and knows me enough and why does he push it soooo much. Then if I do eat that I take magnesum and you know the rest of the old old sick sick old story.................Why why why can't they accept when we aren't desiring that food and just let it be, Like the Song "Let it be ,Let it be.....Whisful ....... Words of Wisdom,........... Let it Be .......Let it Be.".............

I miss being a child , well I mean I miss the great days

[deepblue]

my eating disorder has come back why! i know why i feel sick,paranoid,restless, because i feel insecure yet again my husband can't help me because he doesn't know , i will eat soon just when i am ready but at the moment the thought of food makes me feel ill why! my brain is telling me not to eat yet my stomach is telling me he is hungry , my mind is more powerful when i feel insecure so therefore i won,t.food take is getting minimal but haven't eaten for three days now will eat just not sure when !i feel very sad !!!!!

[dcs_no1_fan]

My husband now knows about my problem & he has been great about it & he is always there for me he doesnt sit me down & make me eat a big meal every day just as long as I have something to eat he's happy I had my oldset child in hospital last weekend over night as he was really ill & I was soooooo worried about him I forgot all about what I was going trought that I was eating to keep my strength up since then I have been eating every day & I am losing more weight now then when I wasnt eating in the last week I have lost over 4lb

[razeljenny]

So good-dcs, it's weird how we get in the FLOW----I just love it!

Huggs for you about your boy--Blessed be and bless

[razeljenny]

Deep-thankyou for the post. Love Robin Razel

[razeljenny]

Man, it sucks, doing it again and over again. I gotta get a grip on it. I can't stand how my friends and lovers push on me about meals. I told them mostly that I can't eat stuff and I can eat other stuff. He still buys icecream, dishes it out and sticks it in my face. The other day he had a pizza delivered and puts it in my face again. He knows and I tell him enough about not giving me food, I just hate and it is as if he on purpose does it to me.

Why can't they respect me. Why do they just forget stuff. Then when I turn down the stuff, they make fun of me and call me names. They do the same thing with beer. I told them that I gave it up and stuff and they just open them and hand them to me anyway. I can't accept the way people keep treating me.

I take medicine that in the past put on too much pounds and I am on something a little better. I used to eat alittle bit more and now my doctor tells me to stay off of high fat meals like cheese and milk above 2 percent. I have to follow the orders of the doctor.

I don't weigh the 219 now but it was maybe a year ago or year and half when I couldn't buy comfortable stuff in the second hand store. I am not too rich and can't shop often for clothes that are comfortable. Going on clothes shopping trips are not a woope te do EVER. Now I dispise clothes shopping.

You know I just can't understand how my family and friends are so stupid and unkind about my bullima problems. Why can't they just lay off me?

Why can't they just shut up once and a while when I have veggies and salads many days in a row. I usually fix great food like potatoes and gravy and chops for them. I made spegetti and meatballs last week. I made homemade chicken soup yesterday. How come they treat me this way? If they want to enjoy their other stuff, can't they keep their mouth shut and not ostrasize me so darn stickin much.

[razeljenny]

Man, it sucks, doing it again and over again. I gotta get a grip on it. I can't stand how my friends and lovers push on me about meals. I told them mostly that I can't eat stuff and I can eat other stuff. He still buys icecream, dishes it out and sticks it in my face. The other day he had a pizza delivered and puts it in my face again. He knows and I tell him enough about not giving me food, I just hate and it is as if he on purpose does it to me.

Why can't they respect me. Why do they just forget stuff. Then when I turn down the stuff, they make fun of me and call me names. They do the same thing with beer. I told them that I gave it up and stuff and they just open them and hand them to me anyway. I can't accept the way people keep treating me.

I take medicine that in the past put on too much pounds and I am on something a little better. I used to eat alittle bit more and now my doctor tells me to stay off of high fat meals like cheese and milk above 2 percent. I have to follow the orders of the doctor.

I don't weigh the 219 now but it was maybe a year ago or year and half when I couldn't buy comfortable stuff in the second hand store. I am not too rich and can't shop often for clothes that are comfortable. Going on clothes shopping trips are not a woope te do EVER. Now I dispise clothes shopping.

You know I just can't understand how my family and friends are so stupid and unkind about my bullima problems. Why can't they just lay off me?

Why can't they just shut up once and a while when I have veggies and salads many days in a row. I usually fix great food like potatoes and gravy and chops for them. I made spegetti and meatballs last week. I made homemade chicken soup yesterday. How come they treat me this way? If they want to enjoy their other stuff, can't they keep their mouth shut and not ostrasize me so darn stickin much.