[itspeaks]

The other night my ex boyfriend told me I was "a little chubby, but still cute." It made me feel like crap. I've been restricting for the passed couple weeks, and losing around a pound a day. I still feel huge. If I go to bed and I'm not hungry, I feel disgusting and fat and huge and like a failure. I hate my life.

[lil_bit]

That's a horrible thing for him to have said! Sometimes though, guys don't really realize what they are saying. Perhaps he meant it as a compliment. I know it doesn't sound like it (my boyfriend said something very similar recently..) but maybe he focused more on the "cute" part than the rest of what he was saying? If not then that was just incredibly inconsiderate of him...

I totally understand where you're coming from with feeling horrible when going to bed without a growling tummy. I hate it.

I guess I don't really have much advice to give here, my apologies...I just wanted you to know that I hear ya chica! Try and be strong and take care of yourself no matter what other people say...

[chloey]

Yeah, its tough, it really is. But remember, guys do like girls with curves, i find it ridiculasly hard to accept that, but its true. Maybe he wasnt critising you. And im sure he didnt mean it, no-one really does, especially boys!!

I to know how the horrible feeling of going to bed full feels, but then it works both ways with me to, i feel horrible if i go to bed hungary to, cos then i feel like ive let alot of people down. I am thinking of you, and feel free to email me anytime, i am happy to help. much love clo xxxx