[Kiya]

t is leaving town and i am just realizing that my binging has to do with that. there's a lot going on - i don't want her to leave right now - som much is in flux, everything is changing I NEED HER NOW.
5 chocolate bars and 3 pints of soy ice cream later, i understand this.
i hate emotional eating. ...and switching. but that's another can of worms.

[Kiya]

Well, I'll answer myself....

Self - you gotta take care of yourself. cuz aint no one gonna do it for ya. so, miss, you get out there and you stop eating that *%$* and you take responsibility for yourself. You got a good head on your shoulders, and you know what you need to do. Never said it would be easy.

LOL

Well, you were maybe a little harsher than I would have been, but I like your attitude....

[eskielover]

Sad thing is that the truth hurts & is never easy......our thought processes that aren't working have to be challenged......but the other truth......when it comes from someone else & it isn't out thinking......it's harder to accept.

Your harsh words to yourself will probably be listened more to by yourself than if they came from 1000 other people.......love your honest approach to yourself.....reality is what it is & we have to deal with it ourselves. I hope you really listen to yourself as what you said is the best & most honest advice you will ever get.

You can do it & you have my support.....sometimes we just have to get our own acts together to straighten ourselves out......Go For it,
Debbie

[iamtwilight]

(((kiya)))