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Nov 30, 2008, 08:26 PM
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OK so I put up a post and noone responded. Is this not the right place for me? I guess it really doesn't matter anymore. Good luck to everyone I give up.I guess I don't belong even with my own issues.
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Nov 30, 2008, 09:08 PM
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Please don't leave. If you put your post in this, the ED forum, I sometimes have trouble answering here, but I do want to welcome you to pc. Have you looked at the ED resources we have here? We also have an ED chat on Mondays (click on calendar above for times). If you'd like you can eithe bump your previous post or say what it was here. You most definately are welcome here. I'm sorry you didn't get any responses.
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Dec 01, 2008, 01:11 AM
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hey tiffer, i was just kind of feeling the same way, about people not responding to my posts. but honestly i think we just kinda have to accept that there are lulls and it's not personal. i know it's hard to do, it's hard for me too. it feels personal. but the audience here is a little different.
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Dec 03, 2008, 02:51 PM
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I know it just sucks it's like this is the last place you come to and you feel like noone's here. I'm not upset I usually push everyone away anyway. I am just so tired of my ed and tryin to get help?
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Dec 03, 2008, 02:58 PM
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Please don't feel that way. It is nothing personal at all!! Have you gone to any of the ED chats? Porceline Doll runs them and she is really really good and supportive and helpful. I have a hard time coming to the ed forum (I used to be uber thin, now I'm the opposite!) but I've set my preferences to all so i'll see if you post again. Please look around and know you are very welcome here.
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Dec 04, 2008, 12:45 AM
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a lot of people post and sometimes your thread will go to the bottom unnoticed, it's not because people don't care it's because it's just not noticed. to bring it back to the top, post on your own thread, just say "hey, need help please", people are normally quick to react. sorry this happened to you....please stay.
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Dec 04, 2008, 04:07 PM
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Hey, I thought I had responded to this but I guess I didn't, sorry about that. You are always welcome to my chats on Mondays at 9 pm EST. I am also in the chatrooms a lot of the time and you can always talk to me in chat. I am on there a lot of the time. You can also PM me any time that you would like to. I would love to be of support to you.
I hope you find that you can talk to me anytime. Doll |
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Dec 05, 2008, 07:52 PM
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im not a religious person, but just believe that people will help you when your down. keep going, you'll never guess what will ever happen
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Dec 14, 2008, 10:40 PM
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Iam soul searching for anything right now. Probably not in a good place. I'm really reluctant to open up hasn't done me much good. Guess I'm still really sick. And I've talked a lot. Confused.
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Dec 15, 2008, 03:18 AM
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It's good to you are still here. Do you havve anyone irl to help you with your soul searching? Have you joined any of the ed chats here to get some support and ideas for help?
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Dec 15, 2008, 10:31 AM
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Quote:
Good Bump Can'tstopcrying , We all try to help the best we can . Recovery allows one to live . And we have to balance our work and other areas of our lives that are still holding us down . And having fun . Have to play catch up  The more of us there are the more we can take breacks. We can spread the wealth. Aurora
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Dec 17, 2008, 03:17 PM
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No I'm afraid to start to feed off of group. It tends to fuel me. I get really sick.
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Dec 18, 2008, 04:32 AM
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Hi Tifferific. boy I can hear you . You get really sick so your afraid If you start to get involved with people here That may affect them in some way as in burden them because you know just what a mamouth of a problem it is to overcome . Or they may leave . Your very afraid to hurt and or dissapoint others aren't you? Your afraid to over whelm them with whats so over whelming . And your afraid to once again not be helped. Gosh I have heard those very words a few times i was right .Therapists will never know what its truly like unless they have been there . They can help you find your own way by asking the probing questions the ones that may unlock the conundrum. Thats all they can do . The rest is up to you. One individiual here asked a leading question. Why is it or what is it thats kept and is keeping you from getting over this. Or shoud I say a steady consistant period of being able to abstain. Why hasn't that happened yet . There may be something your afraid of finding out . Maybe that something is a reason behind why you don't think your worth getting better . It can go deeper Tifferific. Very creative name you got there I can put a tinge of sarchasam while saying it . Heres a recap of some statements from all your posts. <DIV> > I'm not upset I usually push everyone away anyway. I am just so tired of my ed and tryin to get help? >Well I went YEARS without anyone reaching out to me bla bla bla >Anyway,people did SEE my pain the people that you want to hurt notice but they don't take resposibility. That's your job. >They get upset, for a liitle while but they can't change you. noone can make this better. There's only you and tha's only if YOU care. You can talk forever > keep on trying until someone listens and don't give up on yourself.  Gosh that emoticon makes me laugh... Im glad you hung on . You worked and have worked so very hard. I don't tell others about my past or my eating disorder . And when it comes to making very close friends I bail because i don't want to have to expalin.And I have been rejected once I share . And some become scared and ashamed of being with me. It like Im being bullied again. So None of my customers know . no one really . Not any more till here on this forum. Not in the detail I have shared . Not easy but know one knows who I am here . any way . One day I was out working for a customer who has a stereo system that plays music outside . I hit me pretty deep and still does . Telling first line in the song. "it must have been " in a kinda wondering way . we know more than wondering Tifferific AuroraWind beneath My wings By Bette Midler. Bette Midler - Wind Beneath My Wings - Music Video |
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