MPD plus Eating Disorders=big problem

comic sans <font color="red"> </font> Help? I am feeling very like I'm totally powerless & I feel like One of "us" is an extreme anorexic & she's killing us slowly quite literally. I don't how after many years of no group associating She has made a deal w/ out T that we're allowed 1 bottle of Ensure a day & NOTHING else. Out T is going to be working with her head-on. However, we only see him every Tuesday... Today is Friday and I ache & cannot even function. QUESTION??? Can anybody else out there "relate" or have a few "words of wisdom?" because I'm losing it here.... I was dx'd as MPD in the 80's. Everyone "in here" is quite individually developed, but we cannot fight this problem.

I am so sorry but I don't quite follow but would like to help u out here.

Can you explain a little more: maybe I can help with this.

Sorry for being a little slow here. PM me if u like: I am anorexic and bulimic. I may be able to come up with something.

Justy-I need to take a break from the computer right now with my back before it totally seizes up again but will be back okay. Sorry but its hurting big time right now. I will check back in a while okay.

((((((((((((((((((((( dayzee )))))))))))))))))))))

i do understanding dealing/living with DID/MPD. however, i don't have an eating disorder. i'm sorry for what you're going thru...

i don't know what kind of communication, etc. that you all have. however, is there a way for you, insiders and t to get together and figure this out for the body? i sure hope so.

gl, hon.

dayzee, we have the same situation. Some of our alters refuse to eat due to food being used to control us during the abuse. Our T is still trying to work with the alters who refuse to eat. But now we have littles who understand it's safe enough to eat now and our overeating. So we have the two extremes. I hope your T can work with the one who is not eating and Luck Good I know how hard it is to be triggered by something you need to keep you alive. Monty

I have similar problem. ((((((((((((((((((((((dayzee)))))))))))))))))) (((((((((((((((((((monty)))))))))))))))))))

(((Monty)))
THANK THE HEAVENS!! I did not whether to post "my problem" is not. A lot of people w/ ED, do not understand MPD---and I thank each and everyone of you for even reading my post. I know that y'all would like to help...I want to help all of you, too. (((((Monty)))) "she" won't let us swallow when we try to eat. When we try to drink something w/ sugar and/or nutrients (other than 1 Ensure a day) we wind up spending the day coughing up vomitus..painfully & slowly. She is ODing us on stimulant laxatives and we don't know where she got them, but they're strong!!! I don't see T until Tuesday; but I am so weak, I can't do anything! BUT, bless you all for even trying to understand. Monty, if you have any ideas???? Or anybody? I'm slowly fading & I'm scared....
Dayzee9

((((((((((((((((Dayzee)))))))))))))))
I know how painful the laxatives are. We used to do laxatives in the morning to get rid of everything in our body and then diet pills in the afternoon to get us pumped up to go to work. I don't have to say how bad they are. I'm sure you know already. The only thing I can say is try and keep hydrated. Try and keep water down. Maybe they won't be upset with water, since it doesn't have anything in it. And let your T know about them. I know it's the last thing you what to tell your T. But they need to know. Just try and rest and get some water down. I'll be thinking about you. Good Luck
Monty

Yo! ((((Monty )))) Thanks for your encouragement & kind words last week, I made it to have "her" to make a deal w/ our T on Tuesday. "She" was so kind as to lay off the amount of laxatives, said that she "wouldn't kill this body as long as we stuck to the Ensure 2X QD "She" also made an agreement to talk w/ our T if he could teach her to still "float" "She" thinks she's "celestial" and can only live if she can float & the only way for her to "float" in the past was to be skin & bones He says he can I am just glad that "she" is not going to "bump us off!"

Just wanted to thank you for your support

It's nicer when "everybody" gets along...after 18 years of this s***....it's nice to know. Wouldn't you agree?

Life can be so...interesting? Thanks again! ((((((((((Dayzee))))))))))))))

We never have a dull moment with DID, my big problem 3 of my alters look at food as comfort
Angie

((((((((((((((((( DayZee ))))))))))))))))))))) You Are Very Welcome. I'm so glad they have a plan set up. I know mine that don't want to eat think that not eating makes them stronger. Things are so interesting living as a MPD. Is always something going on. Let me know if ya need anything ((((((((((((( DayZee))))))))))))))))) Take Care, Monty

Hey Poohbah: Good Morning!
Thanks for the reply, it is a comfort when you know you're not a freak for having multi-dx's
I know where you're coming from though We have a 10 year old F named "Jessie" She LOVES junk food!!! She likes candy. Personally, as an adult & an ex-veg - I have gotten away from the candy stuff; makes me Then we have another who loves salty stuff; If I even look at a potato chip, I will retain water Then we have the one who loves slow-cooked pork ribs that have LOTS of FAT (which she eats happily) I HATE that! The "rest of us" are the ana,bulimerxic we read every nutrition label & compare; we count every tiny piece of food (we have calorie calculators in our brains ) Yeah, mix several parts ED & then Add DID +
Depressive Disorder = Real interesting? How do you (any of you ) deal with it w/o going TOTALLY MAD???? I'm open to any ideas or hints... Ain't being a "cultured psych case" FUN? ((Dayzee9))))signing out!

I Angie am the host body Im 55 , Marie is the protector not sure of her age , she can be very nasty a real fighter, Reah is about 22, she's the negotiator, peace keeper, Laura is 12, typical pre-teen thinks she's mature, Amy is about 7, a real joker loves to go into chat an visits friends all over the forum, then we have a tiny one who cries alot
Very glad to meet you
Angie